Ever feel so isolated in love?

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Yeah, this is me. One reason I cannot date (and this is probably the primary one) is that I live too desolate from anything. That, and my 'asking-a-gal-on-a-date-and-seeing-if-she-is-interested' skills are crappy.

Does anybody feel so far away, that they cannot see a man/woman to date? *sigh*

I do! I live in a pretty rural area so there's not a whole lot of opportunity. On top of that, most of the people around here just aren't interested in the same things I am (I had no idea that something called "mud diggin' was such a popular past-time until I moved to this area LOL, its apparently where you ride a 4-wheeler around in circles in a mud hole). I'm hoping to move to a larger city in a few months for a job, but honestly a huge part of the reason is just so I'll actually have some decent opportunities romantically and socially.

I would also like advice on how to change all this, if possible.

Move or find hobby or sports clubs in bigger towns nearby

It might help to watch romance comedies of our day and study only one thing: The body language of the "attractive" males.

It is mental and eye candy for the woman to see body language, what draws reactions from either sex, etc etc etc.

Watch it, and practice it at the same time with a mirror in front of you, it may take you months just to get down one reaction, but practice it over the years with friends, family, and with women you have nothing to loose with. Do not learn it as a way of understanding the world, it is fairytale bull s**t that every women hopes to reenact but life never works out that way. But it is a gold mine for observing body language. Matter of fact, do yourself a favor and mute it if you want after a while.

Of course all of this goes to waist if you are just slow, you can't maintain a conversation, or eye contact, and many of the other issues that may hinder an aspy in this realm. But its still fun to try.