OK OK OK, slow down, Bucky. First of all, why are you making Alex the scapegoat for your personal problems? Is this an extension of him not allowing you back into the moderators' fold? It sounds like you've got bigger issues to tackle than just regaining your status here.
Secondly, don't take lack of e-mail replies personally. After all, it IS that time of year and people are kinda busy. Give 'em a few more days.
No offense on the Christmas card, either, for that very same reason. How long ago did you send the card? And how did you word your message? If it's not a matter of timing, it could be just a misunderstanding you may have to clear up with an e-mail to her (just remember to be cool, sane and rational).
Finally, are you sure you want to put your phone number out there for all the internet to see? I know you want to hear from us, but you're kinda opening yourself up to some trouble by disclosing information like that. Jus' sayin'.