aspie ugy about to dump his first gf

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Knowing my gfs been romantically involved with an online her friend (a heroin doing lizard breeder whos OD'd like 7 times) and realizing she hasn't even a good girlfriend or friend for that matter, im going to dump her. Somehow I have a feeling that shell manipulate my feelings into keeping her like she always does (I make the fatal flaw of believing everything my gf tells me is true even if that's probly not the case)

Its like one part of me wants to yell "99 problems" by Jay-Z while the other side is paranoid that no girl will ever love me again after the relationship ends (as silly as that sounds)

"aspie ugy about to dump his first gf"... Hm. Maybe that last thread was something.

Are you okay, stranger?

What kind of stuff? You know, if you think someone is going to be manipulative, then you are better off without them... whether it's situational or not.

Maybe that is what is depressing you? I do not know how to respond, when the subject is vague.

I'll sum up everything in two words: Move on.

I would move on, as hard as that will probably be. Hugs.

I think you should tell her if she doesn't stop what she is doing and treat you like a GF should treat you, then you should tell her that you will leave. You have to be firm and not leave room for her to persuade you. If you have her make the choice of you or her derailed ways, then she might choose you, but she might also not care and choose the other route. If she chooses the other route, then it's better that way. You are still young and can find another GF.

i'm pretty sure you know you should leave her, but you are reluctant to do so. why?

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i was giving him the benefit of the doubt that there was a better reason lingering in there somewhere. we are only worth as much as we believe ourselves to be worth. if he chooses to stay with her, then he has no reason to complain.