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Who were you talking to?

That's a funny picture. Yea, I was kind of wondering if that was the response I would get.

This is what feels most natural to me though, and I'm really tired of working my ass off to chase girls I barely know, and then find out I don't like them after I put in a lot of effort. I did similar things when I was younger and it didn't work, but I figured it wouldn't hurt to try again.

Well thanks guys. I think I won't post a note about this.


I think a lot of you didn't even bother to read it though. Your comments don't make any sense.

shameless git lol who else?

I think you are two of the people who did not even bother to read it carefully

What do you think this quote above means, if not that relationships are a balance between 2 people's interests?

I can't tell the person what I'm willing to do for #1 because I don't know who is going to read the ad. I can only do #2. I sort of try to do #1 in the below paragraph.




I thought my Ad was sort of a long way of saying that so long as you aren't a b***h, then I'll dissolve my personality to suit your needs. I thought it was actually quite conciliatory. Maybe people don't see this because women are used to doing whatever they want and men bending over backwards to please them, so when you see one who sets some standards for the people whose asses he's willing to kiss, it sounds like he's expecting a lot.



A different guy said this:



I don't even understand how expecting a lot from them can lead to them acting pampered. I thought it was the other way around. I don't even think I was expecting so much. Basically these are the bare minimum requirements for a relationship. I don't think I could manage a relationship where a girl didn't do these things. And this list is a lot less demanding than the lists that girls make for their ideal boyfriend. Maybe I could make my ad shorter by saying this:

Tell me what you f*****g want so that I can do it
Share your interests with me
Don't be an idiot
Be female
Don't be ugly

Actually, I'm thinking that list might be superior to the Ad I just posted. I really don't see how this is demanding at all.

This sort of ad is the only thing that feels natural to me. I'm so sick of pretending to be a NT and pretending like I'm attracted to every pair of tits and p**** that has a pulse. I don't want to flirt with every single girl and approach hundreds a day. Every girl acts like I'm attracted to her by default, so she makes me put in an enormous amount of effort to try to get her, and often after I get to the point where it might be appropriate to ask her out, I find that I don't even like her. I think some of you guys act like I'm a dog at the pound and I should be grateful for any woman who's willing to let me lick her feet. Apart from being female, 18, and having a libido, I could have met all the standards when I was 10. They are not high standards.



I'll accept that my ad weird and I won't post it. I don't have any sense for what other people find strange, and if you guys find it strange, then I'd imagine the NT would think so as well.

I always thought ads like that were stupid

I definitely agree with you. Your ad looks fine to me. You're just a regular human being stating what he wants in a relationship. Hell, I'm of the same opinion as you are. I wouldn't want a "princess", I'd want a partner who'd be willing to be with me for me, not me pampering her. What's so hard to understand that?

I don't see anything different about his ad than the ads most women I see post about exact super specific things they want in a guy.

More guys should do this just to turn the tables.

You should not rely on this ad. It would be good if you could find a girlfriend by yourself to avoid any regrets at the end.

why does that girl jessicella keep deleting her damned threads?

I'm sorry if I sounded mean. I think I was mean in a couple of my responses. Please don't take it personally.

This aint a dating site.
Someone else has decided to remove her two threads and point her out where the elegible odd bobs thread is

That people are already helping someone immature as you is too much.

You want a girlfriend without having to work hard?

Oh man, i want to be rich, i want a lot of money, BUT I DON*T WANT TO WORK HARD FOR IT.

In other words you're a lazy person is what we can conclude from this. Do you honestly think everything you want will just randomly fall into your lap? *sigh*

I don't see why companionship must be earned. Friends should be your friends because they appreciate you as a person. Not because you've somehow "earned" one. And I don't see how expecting a girlfriend or wife is the same as wanting a lot of money or being rich. It's a common expectation of being human, the analogical equivalent is "I'd like a good job that pays me enough to survive and I'd like to not hate every second of it."

Besides, girls post all kinds of unrealistic crap in their dating profiles. Like wanting guys with jobs, cars, when they're unemployed living at home. I don't get why everyone's sh*****g on him for doing this as a man.

Yes, some girls do and people will equally be sh*****g on them for that too I believe.

BUT

I think he should post the ad on facebook. Might get a positive response, you never know.
People might think he's delusional but you gotta take some risk, right?