do you want or have a boy/girlfriend?

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do you want or have a boy/girlfriend?
Yeah, I have/want a boy or girlfriend 28%  28%  [ 67 ]
Yeah, I have/want a boy or girlfriend 31%  31%  [ 76 ]
I dont think so. But I might have one if I find someone with the same interest as me and I like him. / Or it doesnt really matter if I get one 12%  12%  [ 28 ]
I dont think so. But I might have one if I find someone with the same interest as me and I like him. / Or it doesnt really matter if I get one 14%  14%  [ 33 ]
No I dont want/have a boy or girlfriend 7%  7%  [ 17 ]
No I dont want/have a boy or girlfriend 9%  9%  [ 22 ]
Total votes : 243

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06 May 2013, 11:15 pm

I have a husband if that counts.


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07 Sep 2014, 5:00 am

Yes I would like to have a girlfriend, someday at least, I may lack social skills but I have a lot of love to offer



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12 Sep 2014, 12:16 am

I have a boyfriend, and he's amazing. He accepts my special needs with an open heart, and he's very supportive of them. He is always learning more about me as we talk as well. Not once has he been judgmental about my disabilities. It makes me happy because I feel as though I've found the one I've been searching for. I mean, I wanted someone to love me for me for as long as I can remember, and I finally have that missing piece. <3


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13 Sep 2014, 1:08 pm

Not really. It's gross and complicates your life.


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08 Oct 2014, 6:03 pm

I can't imagine myself enjoying typical relationships, but another weird person like me might be good company.



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09 Oct 2014, 7:37 am

I don't really want one but I could use one.
I want to move out of my parents house and I am curious how sex etc. would feel like and I am not brave enough to move out by myself and do a one night stand with a stranger. Having a boyfriend would really help my concerns.
But as far I see all boyfriends seem to require the love-dove romance stuffs and I guess I will never have one since I just can't get the idea of romantic love. They are too needy emotionally. That hurts because I can't fit their expectations.



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13 Oct 2014, 11:44 pm

Due to my gender issues, I don't wish to have a lover.


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14 Oct 2014, 12:33 am

i could use one when i'm ready...probably not now.

don't handle aloneness that well, but i have to.


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26 Oct 2014, 8:14 am

I would definitely like a boyfriend, at least at some point in my life.


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04 Nov 2014, 5:59 pm

LokiofSassgard wrote:
I have a boyfriend, and he's amazing. He accepts my special needs with an open heart, and he's very supportive of them. He is always learning more about me as we talk as well. Not once has he been judgmental about my disabilities. It makes me happy because I feel as though I've found the one I've been searching for. I mean, I wanted someone to love me for me for as long as I can remember, and I finally have that missing piece. <3

wonderful 8)


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14 Sep 2015, 3:12 pm

No, I don't want anyone intruding into my life.


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25 Sep 2015, 10:17 pm

I desperately wanted a girlfriend when I was single. I met my current girlfreind on this forum & we've been living together for 3 years now.


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07 Nov 2015, 2:00 am

I don't wish to have a love mate.


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07 Nov 2015, 8:09 pm

i had one thrust upon me.


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01 Jan 2016, 5:35 pm

this poll uses "have/want" as the same option: that doesn't make sense

I may not have one

But I sure do want one :(


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11 Jan 2016, 1:10 am

I've been all interested in this again, as I really don't understand what a relationship is, and no one explains the standards of one the same way. I have had "relationships" in the past, but never really got the point. I have some dysphoria issues to sort out right now but when that's done with, I might actually be interested in having a girlfriend to show me what this is all about.


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