hale_bopp wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Outrider wrote:
I thought when you said this:
"because that would mean admitting you're the problem as opposed to taking out your problems on women."
You were talking to me personally.
If you said 'the men in this thread are saying all this, they wont admit they are the problem and are taking it out on women personally' then i would have understood better.
She’s talking about me much like previous mean women, seems her grudge against me didn’t go away during her absence. I’m just going ignore her posts from now on, she’s doesn’t seem capable or reasonable conversation with me or of seeing mine or others point of view or issues. Perhaps men accused her f such things in the past so she takes it personally. Why she defends superficial women who aren’t anything like her i dont know, but some women have a one for all and all for one attitude about the femal gender. I would not and do not defend men who would reject woman for being above average, small boobs, not being having blond hair. I won’t defend superficial men. Freak them they horrible people. So are the superficial women who stick to gender stereotypes and bad traditions. Women got rights, women got independence, we removed past female stereotypes and traditions why can’t we get ride of the man mud make be the provider s**t.
Why can’t two people both work and have kids, who the freak says one has to stay home all the time. There’s day cares, preschools etc. so why can’t two min wage workers rent a ok apartment and raise a kid? Freaking 16 olds teens manage it. Why can’t a 30old woman?
You are one example, though I don't remember knowing you since I came back to this site. I don't have a grudge against you, I don't know who you are. I have a grudge against the sort of false generalisations you spurt. I don't hate the poster, I hate the post. You weren't who I thought of when initially writing that. You're just annoyed because what I said is true. It may be your personality people don't find attractive, though you refuse to believe that because it's not a shallow reason to not be attracted to someone. People don't have to like what they don't like, men or women. If a man doesn't like small boobs, it's not really other people's concern. A lot of men hate what I look like, and all the more power to me, I know who to stay away from.
You're just so wrong about me and people in general. When did I defend superficial people? By saying that people don't have to find attractive what they don't want to find attractive?
It's not all about looks. Most problems are incompatibility, different outlooks on life, no chemistry, et cetera.
No you annoy me cause you accuse me of lying while you have no proof otherwise cause you’re not that way so all women aren’t that way, yiu live in New Zealand, what do you know of American women? I live here I deal with them daily, I read their profiles, ads and social media posts daily. I even explained to you such women are on wrong planet yet you still sit their with a smug attitude that I’m lying and making it all up and women are perfect angels. Trather then accept that most American women and probably most American men are superficial you choose to blam is aspie men, yiu claim it must be our personality but you don’t know us, and those women never met us to see our personality they simply look at a pic , job status and reject or approve. It’s that simple. No personality involved since to see and know someone’s personality would require actually talking to them and meeting up which said women won’t do unless said men meet their idea of a quality man which means good looks, good paid job, owning a car, and having their own place. All things that American society deems as needed to have your life together, anyone who doesn’t is deemed a worthless loser. I won’t pretend to understand New Zealand culture, society and women so plreas stop acting like you know what’s happening in American and i a person who actually lives her doesn’t. I’ll leave Australia and New Zealand to outrider and retrogamer who actually live there, though from them it doesn’t sound much better. I don’t think your such a woman, I’d love to have nice chats with you I think your avatar is cute, but sadly as low g as you take this high horse attitude that you know better and I’m just a liar and ignore all the evidence including women here from the USA saying they won’t date men like me, I don’t see us having conversations. I don’t need this in my life, it’s alread depressing without some lady from the other side of the planet telling me such women who expressly say they won’t date low paid or unemployed men are lying and that it’s anout my personality though they’ve never even talked to me, and the ones who have straight to my face told me it’s cause my job and Inability to pay for raising kids, vacations to Europe, cars, house, dinners out, etc. that I lack ambition cause at 30 I should be well near the top of a career but now. Climbing that cooperate ladder. You clearly don’t understand and the fact yiu just keep digging that hole deeper makes me think yiu never will
Nurseangle is one of said women who won’t date down, to her I’m worthless and unlovable but she’s straight about it and doesn’t say I’m lying, she’s kind even if I think she’s superficial, we disagree but we have mostly civilized conversations they don’t envolve Rhee calling me a liar and saying it must just be my terrible personality. Like ouch.
Real world calling. Money matters, money buys things, money pays for things, I’m not stupid. Most people want to be upper middle class. Just is what it is atleast in America. Middle class hate poor people her elike despise them, call them theives . People work to death in attempt to achieve middle class. Doesn’t seem so unbelievably that women would want to only date middle class or better men if they can. But I don’t have to believe, they post their qualifications to date the, and as DO NOT MESSAGE ME UNLESS YOU MEEET THEM!! !! I’ve had female friends from Europe tell me their other male friends from the USA have similar problems. So tells me it’s not just the west coast. Then yiu have studies that show women aren’t dating down and that marriages are in decline because of it and birth rates are at all time low. Yiu have women who went to college and have good jobs complaining there aren’t enough men. There’s more men then women. So it’s not a problem of not enough men, it’s not enough quality men for them, men aren’t going to college as much as women, and men who do aren’t graduating as much and those who do aren’t find as many jobs. Factory jobs use to be a source of good jobs for men are being automated or shipped over seas, but women aren’t lowering their standards, no they highering hem cause they going to college getting good paying jobs and want a man who makes the same or more but those men are fewer and fewer. These women aren’t single by choice like you, they want to get married and have a family. So there upset they can’t find a man good enough to do it with.
I had a female coworkers ask me “where are all the quality men at?”
I should have been like sorry I’m not a quality man to you and walked away.
Most women aren’t like you, they aren’t like sweatleaf, hurtloam, slwrtc they aren’t aspie women, they’d society drive nt women, they want to be popular and fit in, they want status, they want fancy things, they want nice homes, they want kids, etc, who’s more likely to provide that me or a man making $30 and hour with benefits and s retirement package?
14 Oct 2017, 3:56 am
