06 May 2013, 1:08 pm
So, so true,...
886 wrote:
The idea of someone not wanting attention from someone is completely foreign in our society.
Most everyone in society does everything to impress the opposite gender. Everyone wants to date, to have sex, to get and give attention. Some people want to have lots of sex but never love anybody. Some people want to have alot of emotional closeness but never have sex. The idea of someone wanting neither is just foreign to most people. There are people out there like that, but it's hard for those close to grasp. I never really went out and dated anybody until later in life, and you get that pressure from friends, oh, you must be gay. Oh, you're afraid. Oh you haven't found the right person. Oh you need to get out there more. Or, alternatively, you just don't want anything from anybody of that sort. As true as it is to you, some people just never will accept that to be true.
It does recieve more prejudice than the LGBT community - in a way. As in.. people out there will understand one's life decision to mate with the same gender. Very few people, close friends, family, therapists, alot of people just don't understand.. you want NOBODY? You don't want to love, you don't want to have sex, anything? The only people who will understand that are those with similar mindsets, yourself, or really close friends.
Most everyone in society does everything to impress the opposite gender. Everyone wants to date, to have sex, to get and give attention. Some people want to have lots of sex but never love anybody. Some people want to have alot of emotional closeness but never have sex. The idea of someone wanting neither is just foreign to most people. There are people out there like that, but it's hard for those close to grasp. I never really went out and dated anybody until later in life, and you get that pressure from friends, oh, you must be gay. Oh, you're afraid. Oh you haven't found the right person. Oh you need to get out there more. Or, alternatively, you just don't want anything from anybody of that sort. As true as it is to you, some people just never will accept that to be true.
It does recieve more prejudice than the LGBT community - in a way. As in.. people out there will understand one's life decision to mate with the same gender. Very few people, close friends, family, therapists, alot of people just don't understand.. you want NOBODY? You don't want to love, you don't want to have sex, anything? The only people who will understand that are those with similar mindsets, yourself, or really close friends.
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06 May 2013, 4:45 pm
chlov wrote:
Cai85 wrote:
I've been mistaken for gay before.
Some people think that I'm a lesbian.
I guess that is because I've never been intersted in dating guys.
Actually, I'm neither interested in dating girls.
But people are weird.
Whatever...
Same w/ me.
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06 Dec 2016, 2:51 pm
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06 Dec 2016, 3:50 pm
marshall wrote:
I'm asexual but not sure if I'm aromatic or not. When I've been with guys doing guy talk I've just lied and pretended I wanted it. Now that I'm 32 and not in college or graduate school anymore It's even more awkward. Before I could pretend I was just putting it off. Now people are going to make assumptions. I don't know if I want to live alone my entire life though.
3 and half years make a lot of difference it doesn't it? Obviously not aromatic!
Hope things are going well in Turkey, I think you made the right decision to pursue the relationship.
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09 Jan 2017, 8:02 pm
Zed90230 wrote:
I can only speak for myself, but having someone tell me how fantastic sex is, is like describing a beautiful sunset to a blind person.
That's one way of putting it
I unfortunately, when it comes to me, feel any sort of sexual advance towards me predatory or a demonstration of lack of interest for my character. The times I've had sex, I feel used after and not validated at all if anything just as uncomfortable as towards the buildup.
09 Jan 2017, 8:38 pm
