Lonely Aspie boy ISO lonely Aspie girl

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29 Jan 2007, 7:39 pm

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I couldn't help but smile.

Respect to you from me, LePetitPrince.

Its ok to be picky, but you don't around advertising it, it makes you look like an a***hole, besides WP is not a dating site!


I agree in that it's ok to be picky. But the reason I had the criteria I had (in the thread entitled "I give up") was because I found someone who I was attracted to. She was an Aspie, had very similar interests to mine, and was very physically attractive. But she was already in a relationship. My thinking was that "if this woman is unavailable, then I need someone who is just like her".

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Or you could just get over her and find someone else. That's not being picky, it's just being F*cking stupid.


What should I look for in somebody who might eventually be a mate?

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29 Jan 2007, 7:40 pm

I don't think you should look for anything. You just meet people as life goes on, some you get the stomach lurch, some you don't. That's how I live life. :)

Over the years i've learnt not to look for things in people, i'll always be disappointed. Also, I don't date, I just want lots of friends. That will be hard for me, because when they enter in a relationship, they won't be able to hang out with me anymore.

I have qualities I like in people, but it's not really essential if they have them or not. I could fall for the complete opposite.



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29 Jan 2007, 7:43 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I don't think you should look for anything. You just meet people as life goes on, some you get the stomach lurch, some you don't. That's how I live life. :)

Over the years i've learnt not to look for things in people, i'll always be disappointed. Also, I don't date, I just want lots of friends. That will be hard for me, because when they enter in a relationship, they won't be able to hang out with me anymore.

I have qualities I like in people, but it's not really essential if they have them or not. I could fall for the complete opposite.


So it's something that just happens then?

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29 Jan 2007, 9:39 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
So it's something that just happens then?
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That's pretty much how I see it.


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29 Jan 2007, 10:30 pm

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30 Jan 2007, 3:25 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I don't think you should look for anything. You just meet people as life goes on, some you get the stomach lurch, some you don't. That's how I live life. :)

Over the years i've learnt not to look for things in people, i'll always be disappointed. Also, I don't date, I just want lots of friends. That will be hard for me, because when they enter in a relationship, they won't be able to hang out with me anymore.

I have qualities I like in people, but it's not really essential if they have them or not. I could fall for the complete opposite.


So it's something that just happens then?

Tim


yea it is ,

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