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21 Jul 2013, 6:13 pm

auntblabby wrote:
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If insecurities do take place, lets hope it'll be from the non-dominant partner so the risk isn't as damaging. Someone's got to keep the flow going!
why does there have to be a "non-dominant partner"? I thought relationships were supposed to be a pairing of equals.

It averages out; depending on the circumstances, one partner or the other is always dominant.



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21 Jul 2013, 6:25 pm

call me naïve but I know for a fact that I will always listen to my partner no matter what she says, and I expect no less in return. we all have the right to have moments of weakness and not be kicked to the curb for that.



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22 Jul 2013, 5:29 am

billiscool wrote:
so,I keep hearing no confidence men are turn off


Although my confidence is good I have a problem with the idea that confidence is the most important thing. It's not a good thing as such to have low confidence but it's not a "bad" thing either. If someone pretty much insisted on high confidence I'd take that to mean they want me to live up to their expectations all the time which isn't compatible with my #1 criteria for women that they are somewhat chilled out about things.