22 Oct 2013, 2:12 pm
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22 Oct 2013, 2:18 pm
lost561 wrote:
It's not about radically changing who you are but yes I'd say at least half the men here want the type of woman I describe. Not only that but their chances of finding an NT are much greater than them finding an Aspie. Feminine women aren't all shallow, as cafeluit would say that's very racist of you to say. It's more about finding your strengths and exploiting them and also learning human psychology. If you want the hot woman than my advice works better. If you are fine settling for the more weird type women than don't listen to me. And I also never advocate manipulating anybody, just women that I like want to usually not have the pressure of making the decisions in the relationship. It seems as though women on the spectrum do enjoy that.
You know, you're a funny guy, Lost. This really did make me laugh out loud.
You're young. Maybe you'll improve with age, maybe you won't.
To you, I seem to be one of "the more weird type women".
That's cool. You seem to be looking for a daft wee lassie. I'm an intelligent, well-educated, attractive, financially secure, self-assured, confident professional woman. I am so far out of your league that you can't even see me! 
Thanks for the laughs!
22 Oct 2013, 2:34 pm
Marcia wrote:
I seem to be one of "the more weird type women". I'm an intelligent, well-educated, attractive, financially secure, self-assured, confident professional woman.
I'm an intelligent, well-educated, attractive, financially secure, self-assured, confident professional woman. You sound like my type. All those things could easily describe my girlfriend.
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22 Oct 2013, 2:38 pm
Geekonychus wrote:
Marcia wrote:
I seem to be one of "the more weird type women". I'm an intelligent, well-educated, attractive, financially secure, self-assured, confident professional woman.
I'm an intelligent, well-educated, attractive, financially secure, self-assured, confident professional woman. You sound like my type. All those things could easily describe my girlfriend.
So, she's weird too!
22 Oct 2013, 2:49 pm
Marcia wrote:
Geekonychus wrote:
Marcia wrote:
I seem to be one of "the more weird type women". I'm an intelligent, well-educated, attractive, financially secure, self-assured, confident professional woman.
I'm an intelligent, well-educated, attractive, financially secure, self-assured, confident professional woman. You sound like my type. All those things could easily describe my girlfriend.
So, she's weird too!
Yep.
Also she's laid back, nonjudgemental, loves animals, cooking, a ton of common interests, likes sex, and a myriad of other reasons why she'd be a good fit for me that go beyond just looks and financial stability (although those are both nice bonuses that she also possesses.)
No "settling" here........she's the whole package.
22 Oct 2013, 2:53 pm
Aww, this is just so...romantic... 
But she likes Lost more, you can tell.
22 Oct 2013, 3:23 pm
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22 Oct 2013, 3:28 pm
JanuaryMan wrote:
Apply this logic to yourself and prepare for much disappointment.
I'm not sure if your feelings are still angry from the comment I made earlier and that prompted you to make this comment but Thank you Januaryman. I appreciate the tip.
22 Oct 2013, 3:35 pm
lost561 wrote:
I'm not sure if your feelings are still angry from the comment I made earlier and that prompted you to make this comment but Thank you Januaryman. I appreciate the tip.
Nah that comment you're on about was harmless and funny. I'm just saying if you're going to generalize people with the same condition as you don't forget you're also tarring yourself with the same brush. Unless of course, you believe you're above this stereotype you've created for AS folk. That would be quite funny, too, and I can't take offence to something that ridiculous.
22 Oct 2013, 4:31 pm
JanuaryMan wrote:
lost561 wrote:
I'm not sure if your feelings are still angry from the comment I made earlier and that prompted you to make this comment but Thank you Januaryman. I appreciate the tip.
Nah that comment you're on about was harmless and funny. I'm just saying if you're going to generalize people with the same condition as you don't forget you're also tarring yourself with the same brush. Unless of course, you believe you're above this stereotype you've created for AS folk. That would be quite funny, too, and I can't take offence to something that ridiculous.This is, and always has been, my number one issue with the OP.........
It's one thing to express a preference for "normal" (i.e. NT women.)
It jumps to a whole other level of self-hating ableism when you then outright dismiss (or act downright hostile to) the opinions of Aspie woman because they are "weird/subnormal" and equate being NT with being "higher quality." How could an Aspie not take offense to that?
It's why I find the title of this thread ironic.
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