*Drumrolls*
So I've been following latin dance classes for 2 months now at the universitary sport centre. There is this Italian guy there who is clearly physically attracted to me. He often checks me out and without any shame he looks me up and down. I find it really akward and it makes me feel uncomfortable. I don't know if these are cultural differences, or that he plainly has no manners.
Anyway, he is a nice guy and studies technical engineering which means he is also smart. Yet, I am not at all interested in him. First of all, he is an exchange student and will be moving back to Italy in only a few months. I don't do long distance relationships and I am not prepared to move to Italy. Second, I get the feeling that he is quite a womanizer. When he added me on facebook, I saw he added four other girls from Latin class at the same time. Even though he might not see them in the same way he sees me, it does make me wonder. He also dances very physically and smoothly with others girls in our class. I feel that he thinks I might be the easy kind of girl, an exotic piece of candy, with a nice body, that he can conquer while he is abroad.
Now here's my problem:
I am just not that attracted to this guy, for the reasons mentionned above. I also don't feel that much of a connection, even though he is nice. Now, on facebook he keeps asking me when I am going to cook for him, he keeps inviting me to events and (birthday)parties. I mean, I like this guy, but I don't want anything with him. I am not the easy sleazy covergirl kind of breezy girl that will just go with the flow and sees where ships sails. He is also quite persistent about his invitations when I reject them. When I say: 'no, I am not coming tonight because my friend is sick and I'm not going to a party -at an unknown place and where I don't know anyone- all by myself', he will keep on going. He will ask questions like: 'can't you come with another friends?', 'don't you trust me?' and all that jazz. It gets on my nerves. I don't want to be mean to this guy, but at the same time I don't want to give him false hope. He asked me what I was doing for the weekend and I said I was going to see my family in my hometown. Now he even asked me to give him a tour around my hometown sometime soon. I wouldn't mind doing that but I HAVE NO ROMANTIC INTEREST IN HIM WHATSOEVER.
How do I deal with this?