Obsessed

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I am obsessed with a guy i met online.
blocked him from social networking for a while
and forgot him
then got back to unblock him
and now just wasting time looking his profile
sometimes trying to wear same coloured clothes that he is wearing
i think he got a hint that i am also trying to show interest in him

just yesterday he ended up putting his wife's and kids pic as his display
pic

what he intends to say??? get lost i am not interested

ya so many days he was just posting his single pic now suddenly he posted his family pic
as if saying im not interested....

As someone who's been in the same boat as you numerous times, I know the feeling all too well. I hope you find peace in all this.

I've have been in your situation, it's difficult if they have not said directly 'I'm not interested or un available'. If I were you I would just block hi. Again and move onwards else it will mess with your head.

they had told few months back that they are interested in me....
but i had not responded

I think you just have to realize that you were obsessed with an idea and not an individual.

You THINK you want him but trust me, you don't know that. All you know is you want the idea of him, a perfect idea that you've created in your mind. Once you meet a man and realize his imperfections, and feel distraught because it doesn't like up with your expectations, then you'll realize that you were living a lie this whole time.

I've been there. I once actually dated a girl I was obsessed about. It doesn't make it any better. You have this rigid concept of who she is and you get angry if she behaves outside of the box that you put her in subconsciously. The relationship ended because the Christmas present she got me was not what I had been expecting and I was irrationally dissapointed to the point of anger. I was really mad, over really nothing, because she was trying to do something nice for me. I hadn't even told her what I wanted, I just expected it to happen.

So, you've gotta learn to accept a person with their flaws, and that's love.

ya actually i am sick the childhood neglect, abandonment as taken its toll on me
i have been reading all this books by susan peabody but to no avail

i feel sick whole day like a broken soul-less person

Yeah, just once it'd be nice if somebody out there would be just as obsessed about me as I am about them. And we actually saw it through all the way, not just randomly fell out after a month. Like seems to happen in the best of times.

Maybe it's a recipe for disaster but I'd still like to see what happens.