Is it harder to find a girlfriend being inexperienced

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One thing I have some anxiety over is that I didn't date when I was younger because of social problems I had through adolescence. I am now 24 years old, and still have not had a serious relationship. Ive had a relationship a couple years ago that got canned pretty quick because I got overemotional with the girl, and was selfish. I started to lose interest in her anyway once we started dating.

I have some bad luck with dating it seems. I had these really smart asian girl in the fall I was messing around with a bit, but I didn't see a girlfriend in her. I wasn't really into her face, no offense. I'm big on girls with pretty faces and eyes. She wanted to have sex two times it didnt work, first time I was too f****d up and sleepy, the second she just asked if I wanted to in the middle of the day while my roommate was washing dishes in the kitchen.

Now I'm worried that my lack of experience at 24 is going to severely impact my options. I hate to say it, but I might have to just lower my standards and date a girl who is overweight for awhile before I am experienced enough to f**k a more beautiful girl good. I think its just psychology.

When you say inexperienced do you mean in terms of sex? Or in terms of the whole relationship? The way you talked at the end you said you need to date an overweight girl to be able to have sex with the girl you want, so that made it sound like you were mostly concerned about the sexual part.

Well if you are going to use a girl for sex hopefully you will at least be honest with her about that.

Really, you have such a crazy view of how a girl should be and of sex/relationships. Too be honest it doesn't suprise me you are still unexperienced.

I think nobody understood the context of my post. I will say it again.

I am a virgin, I didn't sleep with that asian girl, I did not see a girlfriend in her because our relationship was meaningless. I did not feel like I would enjoy meaningless sex. I denied her, and never saw her again. She wasn't my type anyway because shes an intellectual that likes relationships with little attachment, I am a "romantic" I like to look into a girls eyes.

There was this other girl who I did like, but she scrapped me after the emotions got high.

Just be honest about the type of the relationship you want, but don't expect to find plenty of women willing for casual sex, they're rare and you have to be very good looking and 'hot'.

Yes it is obviously, this is how I see it, for guys its literally a matter of knowing how to get a girlfriend, for girls its not literally a matter of knowing how to get a boyfriend, since guys have to be the initiators, be the one to make a date or relationship happen, that means for guys its literally a matter of knowing how.

Every girl look for a stud....