YEAH! Many just have it EASY, have some advantage, misunderstand, or just have it easier, and they think we are as we are PURELY by choice! 8-( Luckily, I don't complain much, don't see many, and most that know me aren't THAT bad.
If I DO complain to my father, he DOES act that way. Ironically, he would be WORSE than I am if not for one hobby, and the fact that he was married twice. Once around 30(Divorced in 2 years), and the other around 63 or so(HEY, they both have the same hobby, and need a partner!). Frankly, I wouldn't marry anyone with the idea I might divorce in 2 years anyway.
Steve