aspies are not a syndrome but a healthy type of person

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08 Aug 2015, 6:10 am

I am happy to be an aspie. I dont want to NOT be an aspie. Aspie characteristics are working in my favour. I only want to learn more socialisation skills. I am not happy with those who class themselves as aspies 'in the autism spectrum disorder'
What disorder? Does someone who is the life and soul of a party type person have a sincerity deficit syndrome? Does someone who follows the boss at work faithfully have a 'creativity deficit syndrome?'

What is your response? Are you an aspie victim with a syndrome?



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08 Aug 2015, 7:17 am

Not everyone gets positive effects from it, is why. Often, the negatives dramatically outweigh the positives, so someone that has it may consider it a bad thing in that case.

I tend to think like you do, in that I do not want or need some sort of cure for this, but.... there are others that would give anything for it, if it's making them miserable.



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08 Aug 2015, 8:33 am

Think you would find this of interest: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_model_of_disability


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08 Aug 2015, 10:00 am

For the most part, I agree with you. I have found that the hypersensitivity to patterns associated with Asperger's has been very helpful. On the other hand, being socially impaired sucks.


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08 Aug 2015, 10:03 am

Like with everything else, there are good and bad aspects of having Asperger's/HFA. Obviously, how they manifest themselves depends upon the person.

The key, really, is to (yes, this is a cliche--but it's a cliche for a reason) emphasize your personhood over your so-called "disorder."

I, myself, don't really think in terms of "suffering" from Asperger's/HFA. Nor is it really something shameful, like having a "scarlet letter" or something of that ilk.

I find some aspects of being on the Spectrum irritating, and even hurtful But don't those who have colds find having a cold irritating? Are they ashamed of themselves for having a cold?



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08 Aug 2015, 10:17 am

If 80% of the population was Autistic, NTs would most likely be considered disabled.



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08 Aug 2015, 2:33 pm

Anachron wrote:
If 80% of the population was Autistic, NTs would most likely be considered disabled.

Truth be told, some of the NTs I've been around are impaired. :lol:


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08 Aug 2015, 4:10 pm

eleventhirtytwo wrote:
Think you would find this of interest: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_model_of_disability

Thanks for the link. I find it extremely interesting. And too true.


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