Hey everyone Im Ryan. Im 35 and live near Toronto, Canada, Diagnosed HFA just recently (last 3 years)/
I've been married once and divorced (which ended in me being incarcerated because of my HFA). I am now in my third long-term relationship and common law with my spouse. I have quirks that include focus problems, boundary issues (for example.. the difference between a female friend and flirting for more) and can be both too loud or at different times "withdrawn." When my stress level is up, I find my symptoms get worse.
I love my wife -- but because of her health issues I find myself sometimes feeling unsatisfied -- and worse -- feel as though I HAVE NO RIGHT to feel unsatisfied. Our chemistry is off the charts when we do get physical.
I have always had issues making friends with males for whatever reason -- and feel much more confident with females. Obviously, this can create issues when in a long-term relationship.
I lvoe the fact that we have a safe place to get advice -- although I am still wanting to proove to my wife that I can have female friends and be faithful at the same time.
So IM hopefully going to get a few messages from new friends!!