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24 Sep 2015, 3:04 pm

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24 Sep 2015, 3:22 pm

hurtloam is right, it shouldn't matter.



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25 Sep 2015, 4:22 pm

nurseangela wrote:
What's wrong with her that you don't want a relationship?


She's...too Muslim for me, I am an agnostic-atheist.



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25 Sep 2015, 6:56 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
What's wrong with her that you don't want a relationship?


She's...too Muslim for me, I am an agnostic-atheist.


For some reason I thought you were Muslim, Boo. Not true?


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25 Sep 2015, 7:54 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Some jokes she made lately:
"We are probably a couple without knowing it"
"Why don't you marry? You lack nothing"
"If you wanna marry, I'll bring the wedding dress by tomorrow!"
.... and other references to relationship like that.

Is she hinting on me? Or just platonic compliments/jokes? Personally I would never make such jokes with a platonic friend.


She's got marriage on her mind, which doesn't necessarily mean that she's in love with you. Maybe she's feeling pressured by her family to get married?

Someone might have commented on your friendship and asked her why the two of you aren't a couple.



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26 Sep 2015, 4:35 am

nurseangela wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
What's wrong with her that you don't want a relationship?


She's...too Muslim for me, I am an agnostic-atheist.


For some reason I thought you were Muslim, Boo. Not true?



No, not been so for a decade.



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26 Sep 2015, 4:39 am

dianthus wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Some jokes she made lately:
"We are probably a couple without knowing it"
"Why don't you marry? You lack nothing"
"If you wanna marry, I'll bring the wedding dress by tomorrow!"
.... and other references to relationship like that.

Is she hinting on me? Or just platonic compliments/jokes? Personally I would never make such jokes with a platonic friend.


She's got marriage on her mind, which doesn't necessarily mean that she's in love with you. Maybe she's feeling pressured by her family to get married?

Someone might have commented on your friendship and asked her why the two of you aren't a couple.


Possibly, that would be even more wrong.