Lillikoi wrote:
Someone I know (a new friend) said that I was cold and I made them feel used today. I don't know what it is that I did?
My advice is to ask this person to explain to you what it was that made them feel that way. If there is anything to this accusation, the only way you can learn from it, is if you know what exactly made them feel this way.
I think we (people with autism) can sometimes miss (not pick up on) how things makes others feel. I can reflect for a long time after a social interaction, and think of things that could have been interpreted the wrong way, or I have interpreted the wrong way. Or get frustrated for things I wish I had said instead and so on.....
Or they might be wrong. How they feel might have something to do with them selves, and not your fault.
Also I understand that must have been a painful thing for you to hear...