Multiple crushes or one crush at a time?

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Do you have crushes on different people going on at the same time or do you crush on only one person at a time?

I fall into the latter. I can only focus on one person at a time. My crush on a person can last years, unless of course that person turns out to be a terrible person.

Which type are you?

I've only crushed on one person at a time.

Multiple for me. Because I still can't shrug off the crush on my friend that I had for about 8 years already. New crushes come and go (sometimes 2 or more at a time) but she always stays in my heart, popping up on random times.

I only have one crush at a time, and I also only obsess about one person at a time. Still, I can be in love with one and crush on another at the same time.

I often have crushes on multiple people at once.

One crush at a time. Unless it's a celebrity, then I might have multiple crushes!

I haven't had many crushes but it's always been one person at a time.

The way i understand crushes: several.
I had a few several years back, but they have never gone away, and probarbly never will.
At least i can "background" them, so i'm no longer obsessing about older crushes, making room for new ones, but they will stay around.

If I'm single, I "crush" on however many people are crush-worthy at the time. So, could be nobody, one person, or more than one person.

Multiple for me.

Usually just one person, there might be a strange transition period from time to time though were there's an overlap of two people, but one always becomes the primary and the other fades.

Just one at a time for me. Sometimes it can last for years. And nothing ever comes of them. I need to find something real, not wallow in a fantasy world.