[dating position evaluation thread - get evaluated]

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The_Face_of_Boo
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08 Oct 2015, 4:32 am

When you go to the job market to find a job, it is important to know your value in there, and sometimes the only way to know for sure is to refer to a third party (preferably an employer) opinion to tell you whether you are aiming too high or too low.

:-/ This is true for the dating market, and in this case, it's important to hear whether you are aiming too high.

The idea for this thread is from a post in another thread:

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Ok, I have a terrific idea.

I need female volunteers who are bluntly and ruthlessly honest; so I can message them my pics (in private), and the ones I've dated or had crush on in the last 2 years and so + little info of my and their career.
so they tell me whether I am aiming too high or not.

any volunteering ladies?


nurseangela volunteered, and what happened is I sent her by pm my pics + the pics of the dates/crushes with little info, and she gave me deep insight via pm about my position vis-à-vis the dates/crushes.


This thread is for anyone who wants to submit here as a Assessor (who want to evaluate) or as "Assessee" (who wants to be evaluated) :mrgreen: - Assessor has to be of a straight opposite sex in case the Assessee is straight.

For homosexuals, Assessor and Assessee have to be both same gender and homo.
For bi, Assessor and Assessee have to be bi.

The Assessor can name who wants to assess from the Assessees.


Go!! !


PS: Since this involves of sharing pics of people without knowing with someone else, for a more ethical use please use a private photo sharing instead of public, like your account of Photobucket or an account of imagur, where you can put photos there without being visible by Google.

And please, no sharing of real names and contact info.



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08 Oct 2015, 4:34 am

I am submitting again as an Assessee.



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08 Oct 2015, 4:36 am

I want to be an assessee. I would assess Face of Boo, but I think I'm too much of a homo.


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08 Oct 2015, 4:40 am

DevilKisses wrote:
I want to be an assessee. I would assess Face of Boo, but I think I'm too much of a homo.


It's nothing against homo, but I think you would be way away from the wavelength of straight women's general perspectives.



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08 Oct 2015, 4:44 am

I'm in!! :D


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08 Oct 2015, 4:45 am

I don't want to be evaluated.

I want to evaluate The face of BOO ! !


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08 Oct 2015, 4:46 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
For homosexuals/bi, Assessor and Assessee have to be both same gender and homo/bi.

This is what you mean, right?:

For homosexuals, Assessor and Assessee have to be both same gender and homo.
For bi, Assessor and Assessee have to be bi.



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08 Oct 2015, 4:50 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
For homosexuals/bi, Assessor and Assessee have to be both same gender and homo/bi.

This is what you mean, right?:

For homosexuals, Assessor and Assessee have to be both same gender and homo.
For bi, Assessor and Assessee have to be bi.


oops, that makes sense, fixed.



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08 Oct 2015, 4:55 am

Drawyer wrote:
I don't want to be evaluated.

I want to evaluate The face of BOO ! !


Oh one more thing for everyone.

An Assessee can reject an Assessor's nomination.
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted:


In case of Drawyer, I accept...but hesitantly.



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08 Oct 2015, 4:57 am

Hehehehe...don't hesitate..

I'm your good friend!!


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08 Oct 2015, 5:01 am

Ok, to recapitulate what we have for now.

First column are Assessees, second their Assessors.

DevilKisses ---> (still waiting for an Assessor)
Face_of Boo ---> Drawyer, DevilKisses



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08 Oct 2015, 5:03 am

Drawyer wrote:
Hehehehe...don't hesitate..

I'm your good friend!!



Fine, I am sending you what I sent first to nurseangela.



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08 Oct 2015, 5:04 am

Good! Bro!! :D


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08 Oct 2015, 5:23 am

And oh...a special note for the Assessors.

Show no mercy with your Assessees, be brutally honest.

If you are an Assessor , and you think the Assessee is too ugly or too career-wise below with who is aiming, tell him/her so!



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08 Oct 2015, 7:55 am

I would love for someone to assess me. Brutal honesty is exactly what I want. Feel free to PM me.

I'm much less enthusiastic about doing the assessing, but I'll do it if someone really wants me to.



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08 Oct 2015, 8:46 am

So opening yourself to be told your ugly and unlovable?
There's sites for this where you'll get a much broader selection of people to assess