MissBearpolar wrote:
Why, yes, rage, resentment, grandiosity, a sexist attitude and a giant chip on your shoulder tends to result in nobody wanting much to do with you.
Given that there are a roughly equal number of males and females in this country and that roughly 10% of both sexes (in equal numbers) are gay, it's statistically impossible for more of the 90% of straight females to be in a relationship than the straight men. According to the US census, both guys and girls on average lose their virginity around 16/17.
If you'd consider losing the sexist resentment, your odds of being not miserable and alone for the rest of your life might just increase.
It says on your profile, that you're 35. You grew up at a time when women were not infantilized and spoiled en-masse. In your day, women were expected to have character. OP has every right to feel the way he does. Women in the 13-29 age rage are basically children with developed breasts. I s**t you not.
I used to see women as equals. I still do. Just not the ones in my age group. My mother, my aunts, my grandmothers, my great grandmother, and my sister in law (who is about your age), are strong, mature, responsible women, who are happily married, but could easily make it on their own. Those were the women that our fathers and grandfathers courted, and married.
Young women today have less class than a 1920s-era hooker. In fact, young women and hookers can be almost indistinguishable on a downtown street corner late at night. The only difference between the hooker, and the modern westernized NT woman, is the fact that a hooker has responsibilities, street smarts, people skills, and they do their job with no union benefits, no affirmative action for women, and no safety protections.
I'm not misogynistic at all...well...I never used to be. I was taught by strong women to respect women, and treat them as equals. One of my aunts, another strong, successful women, is a feminist writer and university professor, and her version of feminism is the original feminism, which was designed to protect women and children from harm and abuse. I hold those same feminist views she does.
Feminism today is completely distorted from what it once was. Feminism was originally about restoring the family, by protecting women and children from abuse, which was a lot more common back then. Today, feminism is about inflating women's self-esteem and expectations of men and life to unrealistic levels, while simultaneously claiming eternal victimhood, which then absolves women of all responsibilities. Thus, we see the trash we have today in our young women. They're all Princess Miserable!
Young women are poisoned by this. Men and women hate each other, and their views on each other, and on relationships and sex are completely manipulated by the toxic socio-political-economic system we all live in. Women create misogyny, and men create misandry.
Either way, OP is valid in his points and is not misogynistic. His rant is justified. You're 35 and most likely a strong women, so I can understand how this sort of complaining and ranting about women might be odd, off -putting, or downright offensive to you.
When you see posts like this, they're not directed at you, because you don't fit the description of the women he's complaining about.
31 Oct 2015, 8:51 pm
