Outrider wrote:
11th grade, this girl liked me, asked me out and everything, I developed feelings back, however she had a tendency to play games e.g. hard to get because she wasn't sure how much I liked her and had to do all the work, but I did agree to the date in the first place and thought that should be enough to know I'm interested. So I cancelled the date. Plus, I was a rebound guy. Not like a month or anything, but almost instant. Later on discovered just how much of a crazy girl she was when she very briefly dated my friend.
A few of those happened to me too (mutual feelings, playing hard to get and testing me). Not sure about the crazy part, but at least, she was ND.
Outrider wrote:
I've improved though, for the better:
Uhm, I've not. It was a delightful experience, so I have no regrets.
Outrider wrote:
12th grade, this girl I nearly developed a crush on and started to have thoughts of, but decided to suppress it. A few weeks later she is the one who develops a crush on me and I instantly figure it out and it took 30mins to develop feelings back. This girl was actually a nice, decent girl and still something of a friend.
OP, do you also develop feelings back easily, or have you never been in such a situation?
I think this is the typical scenario. I won't just get a crush on a random girl because she is friendly, she must also send signals that she likes me back (in a romantic way), otherwise, it won't happen. Once there is a mutual interest, I can get a crush really fast, otherwise it won't happen.