loosey-goosey B game, rather than tightly wired A game?

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16 Jan 2016, 11:43 am

Generallly, yes, I think you want loosey-goosey B skills of being present and staying present.

It's okay to be highly skilled in some areas, but that might almost be a likely personality quirk, rather than direct skills which supposedly are guaranteed to work. Human beings are so complex :jester:, ourselves fully included, that nothing is guaranteed to work!



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23 Jan 2016, 12:57 pm

For example, if someone needs space, I go ahead and give them space.

And later on, they'll be plenty of time to ask, did I do something to drive them away? Were they being a jerk, and it's okay if they were.