Hi there,
I just joined this site today after a frustrating doctor's appointment but have been wanting to chat with people on the spectrum for a couple of years now. This doctor who after freely admitting to not knowing much about ASD's insisted that I couldn't possibly have Aspergers, as "it's something that men have, and they're usually overweight and you can tell by their face". (I have never come across that 'identifying feature' so maybe she even had it mixed up with some other condition)
In the past I had been referred by my previous GP to an in-house psychologist who did a 10-question test for depression or suicidal tendencies, and then tried to coach me on social skills (somewhat helpful, but I actually know cognitively how social skills work, I was specifically asking to be diagnosed, or ruled out)
I know that in my profession, the code of ethics is that if you don't know about something, it is unethical to give advice as if you do have expertise in the area. Why do GPs represent themselves as experts if they haven't even read any recent information about it, at the same time as refuting my views, which are based on hours and hours of research and reading of many books, and hearing from actual people who currently have ASD?? I was told to "stop googling things".
I first understood what Aspergers was in July 2012 at the age of 29 - as soon as I started looking into it, I identified with 90% of the traits and experiences of others with Aspergers.
I would love to hear from others particularly in Australia about their experiences with trying to find medical specialists who understand ASD, and especially whether any women have been diagnosed with Aspergers (HFA) as adults.