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fifasy
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07 Feb 2016, 6:34 pm

I haven't had a girlfriend for a while. Am I attractive?

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07 Feb 2016, 7:13 pm

Definately. You have a sensitive face.



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07 Feb 2016, 7:14 pm

One photo is never enough to go on



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07 Feb 2016, 7:27 pm

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
One photo is never enough to go on
This person wants more photos of you, so you can't be all that bad looking. :)


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07 Feb 2016, 8:01 pm

The other photos I have of me weren't taken in good light so it's harder to see me.

Jozie wrote:
Definately. You have a sensitive face.


I didn't know a woman could find a sensitive face on a man attractive. I also have a sensitive personality. :)



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07 Feb 2016, 8:37 pm

I think you look fine, personally, not that I can really comment for obvious reasons. Truth of the matter is that there'll always be one girl that likes you, simply from the law of averages. At least.


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08 Feb 2016, 2:09 am

You don't look unattractive to me. I suppose it would depend on what type of girls you are looking for. You may need to change your look to attract the type of women that you like.



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08 Feb 2016, 6:32 am

For sure, I've seen far less pleasant looking men with girlfriends. Quite what is attractive is largely up to the individual, but I don't see anything here that is off-putting.

As far as features go, you have eyes that are nice in themselves, and are nicely set. A good strong nose, and frankly plush lips. These are, I think, all pluses, and I can't see any particular negatives.

All in all, I think you have a face that's more striking than the average, and it seems fairly friendly.


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08 Feb 2016, 10:13 am

You're not exactly the Hunchback of Notre Dame.

You look like a guy with blond hair. I would guess that women would find you attractive.

Your looks, definitely, are not what is keeping you back as far as dating women is concerned.



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08 Feb 2016, 11:56 am

The only thing I see is at least in that picture your hair style could maybe use a little improvement, but it might just be how it is in that picture...just kind of looks like either you keep it short and its gotten a bit lengthy in some spots, or its the awkward stage of being grown out. Also I personally really dislike the look of turtle neck like sweaters, so I'd say perhaps a different sweater.....but not sure what the over-all consensus is on those.


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08 Feb 2016, 2:10 pm

I appreciate the comments and advice. This is a difficult time for me but I can see I have something to work with.



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08 Feb 2016, 2:40 pm

I would say that 99% of people have "something to work with."

You probably have at least an average amount of "something to work with."



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08 Feb 2016, 6:34 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I would say that 99% of people have "something to work with."

You probably have at least an average amount of "something to work with."


Well said.


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11 Feb 2016, 9:25 am

Your gorgeous!! ! BUT you look gender-unspecific. Change the hairdo to a Marine cut. Grow a Go-tee. I'm just being honest. If you color your hair, mute it a bit. Fashion is difficult these days being that fashions now in stores blur the conventional gender line, so do the beauty products and fragrances. The first thing to change is your hair. That may be the ONLY thing that needs changing.



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11 Feb 2016, 5:31 pm

You look kind and gentle
You look absolutely fine
I am a NT lady and feel sad that so many of you feel you need to change to be attractive. You don't. So often attraction is not,about looks.
For me what is attractive is honesty, intelligence, humour and a sense of fun. The difficulties come from NT people like myself expecting you to think the same way as Us. . . . We don't understand it when you don't and reflect it back onto you. I think letting people know you are Aspie, directing them to,sites like this and books and films will open their minds to the fact that different can be great.



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12 Feb 2016, 8:28 am

I think he looks like a guy. Sort of a New Wave sort.

I don't think he needs a goatee or a buzz cut; that wouldn't be him.