CryptoNerd wrote:
I've seen it over and over. A guy sees a woman he finds attractive, and then he starts following her around, talking to her and cracking jokes, and doing unsolicited favors for her
That's the downside to assuming the passive role in dating. Guys generally have to initiate, so girls will be encountered by guys they're not interested in. Just the way it is.
CryptoNerd wrote:
and he won't leave her alone until she gives up and says she'll be his girlfriend. And the woman sees him as a friend who is being genuinely nice to her. Sometimes this tactic works, maybe because she's insecure and thinks she needs a boyfriend, or because she's just tired of him following her around.
If she's requested that a guy leave her alone and he continues to bother her, depending on severity, she may be able to seek out harassment charges/talk to the regulators of whatever institution they're both in if he continues the behaviour. Or she could just organise a date with him and then stand him up (though that route may be accompanied by its own set of problems.
Seriously though, I doubt a girl would ever consider dating a guy she has absolutely zero interest in, for any reason. If she did, it'd probably be for like one date or something in exchange for him to stop pursuing her. A relationship would never be bred out of that. Like, if a guy is going to be that annoying before being your boyfriend, imagine how much that's going to escalate if he becomes your boyfriend! Logic 101!
It doesn't matter how many times you ask me to give you my wallet, I'm not giving you my wallet!
Except perhaps if you are wielding a sharp object.