Don't you hate it when guys do this?

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Is it really such a shock to you that men also use manipulation to get what they want???
And FYI, friendliness, doing favors, and harassment really does NOT work when it comes to getting women to sleep with you! I did try this when I was in my late teens and it backfired. Men manipulate women by being charming, suave, and charismatic not by being a doormat.

In my experience....it's the same as hanging out with girls-only group, still not as fun as with all-guys group; in fact I was referring to a mixed group with a female majority (all 2 guys, all others girls).
Even in mixed groups, stopping at every shop and "let's take a photo here" every 5 min are inevitable; lol It wasn't like this before the fb/Instagram btw.

I feel like some must have somehow gotten it into their head that most relationships come out of 'friendships' like they figure they have to make platonic friends with a girl first before they could possibly date. So they may not intend to be doing what you describe because they aren't just after the sex...but still for the girl in question it can still seem that way. Other then that I think there is sometimes an entitlement factor that some guys will get...like fixate on a woman and then get it in their head that is their future girlfriend/wife and they think they can force it or something.

But yeah I have friends and acquaintances who are guys, and pretty sure none of them are into me, so I certainly don't go assuming a guy is trying to get in a girls pants just because he makes friends.