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Did anyone here had a crush or fall for someone that already in a relationship?

Not me. But I did have a crush on someone who got a partner afterwards.

Yes, all the time.

This happens to me pretty often, too.

Yes, that's happened to me too. I think that someone who is already in a relationship is less nervous about talking to me. They aren't making a move on me and I know that, so there's not that fear of being rejected that a single chap might have, so we just talk away and get to know each other and unfortunately I've got a bit too close to a couple of guys, but nothing happened.

When I realised there was a spark I started spending less time with them so that they didn't get the wrong idea and so that I could knock my own feelings on the head and not encourage anything. The feelings went away after a while. I still like these guys, but I have no romantic feeling for them.

I met this guy last year at a coffee house, I got a crush on him much later, I found out, he's married. I still go to the coffee house, I'm still uncomfortable seeing him, but it's slowly getting better. I wish we became friends last year.

My first crush had a girlfriend when I first fell for him. I let myself fall in love because we were in high school and there was a low probability of him marrying her, so I waited for their breakup.

Then they broke up, then he dated someone else and dumped her, but he was still never attracted to me.

I asked out a couple girls who were in relationships. I liked em but I wouldn't really say I had a crush on them cuz it wasn't that strong.