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gendoyle0
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04 Mar 2017, 8:17 am

Never used this site before :) I hope this is the right way to reply to your post.
But yeah, I'm an aspie. And a lesbian. The only autists I've ever known have been guys. While we get on like a house on fire as friends, it would be nice to, y'know... Meet an aspie female. Let alone one who's into girls. I don't think it'll ever happen irl. In the meantime, it's nice to know I'm not the only anomaly out there. So hey guys. :heart:



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09 Mar 2017, 10:47 am

I hope you don't mind my jumping into a girl's thread just to say I do hope us gay guys and girls can be best friends! There's definitely no reason for us to be intimidated by each other or feel awkward around each other.

Go girls! You all rock. :cheers:


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12 Mar 2017, 9:04 am

Not sure if I'm a lesbian or not.



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17 Apr 2017, 1:56 am

Just signed up bc I had to look at this thread, warning: childhood and porn mention
I knew I was gay since childhood, I started watching porn at like 11/12 mostly lesbian porn
And omgg op? Same! I've always felt attraction to anime men lmao even tho I'm a lesbian..lmao makes sense right? And I've only felt attraction to those characters. I wonder if I'll ever date because I feel little to no attraction to people, maybe I haven't found them yet :) :lol:



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18 Apr 2017, 4:40 pm

Recently out lesbian. Up until about 3 weeks ago I thought I was bi, and has thought that for over a decade. One of my lesbian friends did an intervention, which while initially unsuccessful made me actually think, and then eventually come talk to her again cuz like... Oops I'm a lesbian. And now I'm dating a cute girl.


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18 Apr 2017, 4:42 pm

Princessjmv wrote:
Just signed up bc I had to look at this thread, warning: childhood and porn mention
I knew I was gay since childhood, I started watching porn at like 11/12 mostly lesbian porn
And omgg op? Same! I've always felt attraction to anime men lmao even tho I'm a lesbian..lmao makes sense right? And I've only felt attraction to those characters. I wonder if I'll ever date because I feel little to no attraction to people, maybe I haven't found them yet :) :lol:

When I thought I was bi I was into really effeminate and short men and liked men cross dressing and now it's like.. oh oops lol. Projecting women onto you so I can fulfill some sort of fake attraction, whoops.


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19 Aug 2017, 5:46 pm

Yay!! It's great to unite here :D

It's hard being a minority within a minority! To find someone who understands your AS within a tiny group is hard work, but worth it when you find the right girl.

My gf is still learning but she loves me enough to try and is open to learning more and how she can love me best so that I'm happy. I can't ask for much more than that, I'm very lucky :heart:

It's so lovely to meet you all and I'm glad I came across this forum.



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20 Aug 2017, 12:07 pm

hypnotik81 wrote:
Yay!! It's great to unite here :D

It's hard being a minority within a minority! To find someone who understands your AS within a tiny group is hard work, but worth it when you find the right girl.



Ha! I hear you. Being a minority within a minority within a minority (Black, Gay, Aspie), finding someone to understand you at all is...well...a challenge to say the least. IF I ever find the right girl, I already know that it'll be worth all the aggravation.


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01 Sep 2017, 10:44 am

Someone mentioned to me last weekend that I might be on the spectrum. I've started down the path to an official diagnosis, but I'm very concerned about this. I'm older and while being on the spectrum explains a helluva lot, I'm scared this will mean I'll never be able to have a relationship. The pool is already small given I'm a lesbian, and now smaller still if I'm on the spectrum. It's been a rough week.



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01 Sep 2017, 10:58 am

^^^ Don't let it bother you unduly. I'm in a happy relationship despite being on the spectrum. I was also diagnosed a bit late. I was only diagnosed a number of years after we met. There were many odd things he found hard to understand about me, but which made sense to him after I was diagnosed.

You'll find that a true soul mate won't care whether or not you're on the spectrum, but will accept you for who you are, with the qualities that make you you.


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02 Sep 2017, 11:09 pm

Yay! Hello girls! :D



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30 Sep 2017, 5:20 am

Another autistic girl who likes the girls here :D


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