Feelings for a Guy

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Can you have feelings for a guy after 3 days of knowing him?

A crush yes just don't let him know too soon because it might take him time. I think it takes longer to develop stronger feelings

He told me I'm the woman of his dreams.

Hmmmm sounds a bit like a pick up line to mee. Try not to let him flatter you too easy after all he can't know you well enough to know if that's the case

How will I know? I'm having doubts about him. All he wants to talk about is me, he also told me I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, what about his kid.

Your instinct is clearly telling you something seems strange. Someone that smooth and we'll practiced is suspicious. Someone who is truly interested will be nervous

What should I do?

You could keep talking it him but not get caught up in the attention or if you don't feel right just be blunt with him and ask the questions bothering you

It may just be that he is trying to flatter you because he is interested or he may be after something else. it's difficult to say. Im sorry I'd this isn't helpful it's really hard to tell when I'm not there watching the Convo unfoldd

Maybe I do know something is wrong that probably why I'm still looking for men.

I think the man is rushing things quite a bit.

Ask him WHY he thinks you're "the best thing" that happened to him.

I can almost understand why. You're probably one of the most honest people on this dating site.

Make sure you don't give out any personal information about yourself (including last name).

Make sure your date is in a restaurant or movie house or something--not in anybody's apartment or house.

Kitty4670, you are the woman of my dreams too.

You are the best thing ever happened to me.

I LOVE YOU, kitty, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.





















....it wasn't that hard to write a lie behind the screen, so easy.

Maybe he's desperate to find a mommy replacement for his kid.

Some single moms behaved exactly that way to me online (ie. instant crazy love even before meeting them).

In fact, one literally told me "Just to let you know, I have one son and one daughter who are in college and I don't make much money to pay their tuition." ...so it was clear what she was seeking for without meddling any further.

I talked to men on dating sites that had a kid, few days of talking, he told me he love me, they even ask to marry me, I thought that was very strange. Few guys wanted to marry me for a green card, this was around 2005.

Since this man is lying to me, I guess it's good to look for other men, right?

Ahh that's a so typical behavior I have seen from overseas single moms (or foreigners who work here) on dating sites, the ones who suddenly become in note so 'crazily' attracted to me and even in love with me, I got those too..... I wasn't aware that there are single dads who do exactly the same thing.

Block' em.....block' em all.

Remember on a dating site it's ok to talk to multiple different men. It's just talking after all

Maybe he's not "lying." Maybe he has feelings of lust at the moment when he speaks to you.

Lust sometimes translate into feelings of momentary love, which includes wanting to marry the person so "loved."

Or maybe he just wants that green card. Who knows?

I wouldn't exactly trust an expression of "love" after "knowing" somebody online for a few minutes or hours.

Pick the guys who enjoy talking about their families or their hobbies without expressing any sort of lust for you.