24 May 2016, 12:29 am
"What the....
"according to him"
Oh, everything makes sense now =)"
Yes, he's probably lying or exaggerating.
"Most girls and women wouldn't go for that sort of guy.
If they do, they might have a problem themselves."
But two problem-filled people ending up in a relationship is still more 'success' than a problem-free person remaining alone.
"They're good looking and smooth talking enough to conceal their real self long enough to get girls"
True.
Alliekit wrote:
Sounds like a complete turn off to me
If the girls are than they are silly
But they are still girls.
Even if women who are rude, selfish, greedy, unattractive and otherwise not a good person end up with a rude, selfish, greedy, ugly slob of a man, they're still both getting more love than you are (just a figure of speech, not referring to you directly but to any men or women who are single in general but actually a decent person).
"If the smooth talking is used as a way to manipulate others into thinking that they are nice when they're really not then that is off putting too imo."
Off-putting to women who can successfully see through his act. Those that can't, on the other hand? Well...
"Maybe the guys aren't nearly as horrible as they're rumored to be. Maybe what you've heard is lies. Maybe the girl is just looking for some no-strings fun."
Still, there are some people who even from a first-hand and superficial look at their personality can appear to be quite a disrespectful and rude person.
I'm sure almost every little piece of sh*t teenage boys in high school had some sort of 'good' or 'redeeming' qualities about them, but observing 90% of their behavior as disrespectful to teachers, rude, loud, obnoxious, arrogant, aggressive, disrespectful to women, racist, homophobic, disrespectful to their own friends, and otherwise delinquent behavior, one has to assume they probably won't be much better outside of school grounds.
And who's to say teenagers are only bad and this isn't possible in adults as well? (clearly has an unlikable personality and getting to know them better will prove this true?)
"You don't know thoug. Those guys and people are very good at putting on a show. It'll be weeks or months into a relationship before they drop the lie and be themselves.
My ex friend is good at that."
More like years.
A girl I'm attracted to right now dated a real a55høle and she couldn't see it. Even last year many months after dumping him she still decided to spend time with him out of politeness and severely regrets it. Tsk tsk tsk.
24 May 2016, 3:23 am
Outrider wrote:
"What the....
"according to him"
Oh, everything makes sense now =)"
Yes, he's probably lying or exaggerating.
"Most girls and women wouldn't go for that sort of guy.
If they do, they might have a problem themselves."
But two problem-filled people ending up in a relationship is still more 'success' than a problem-free person remaining alone.
"They're good looking and smooth talking enough to conceal their real self long enough to get girls"
True.
Sounds like a complete turn off to me
If the girls are than they are silly
But they are still girls.
Even if women who are rude, selfish, greedy, unattractive and otherwise not a good person end up with a rude, selfish, greedy, ugly slob of a man, they're still both getting more love than you are (just a figure of speech, not referring to you directly but to any men or women who are single in general but actually a decent person).
"If the smooth talking is used as a way to manipulate others into thinking that they are nice when they're really not then that is off putting too imo."
Off-putting to women who can successfully see through his act. Those that can't, on the other hand? Well...
"Maybe the guys aren't nearly as horrible as they're rumored to be. Maybe what you've heard is lies. Maybe the girl is just looking for some no-strings fun."
Still, there are some people who even from a first-hand and superficial look at their personality can appear to be quite a disrespectful and rude person.
I'm sure almost every little piece of sh*t teenage boys in high school had some sort of 'good' or 'redeeming' qualities about them, but observing 90% of their behavior as disrespectful to teachers, rude, loud, obnoxious, arrogant, aggressive, disrespectful to women, racist, homophobic, disrespectful to their own friends, and otherwise delinquent behavior, one has to assume they probably won't be much better outside of school grounds.
And who's to say teenagers are only bad and this isn't possible in adults as well? (clearly has an unlikable personality and getting to know them better will prove this true?)
"You don't know thoug. Those guys and people are very good at putting on a show. It'll be weeks or months into a relationship before they drop the lie and be themselves.
My ex friend is good at that."
More like years.
A girl I'm attracted to right now dated a real a55høle and she couldn't see it. Even last year many months after dumping him she still decided to spend time with him out of politeness and severely regrets it. Tsk tsk tsk.
"according to him"
Oh, everything makes sense now =)"
Yes, he's probably lying or exaggerating.
"Most girls and women wouldn't go for that sort of guy.
If they do, they might have a problem themselves."
But two problem-filled people ending up in a relationship is still more 'success' than a problem-free person remaining alone.
"They're good looking and smooth talking enough to conceal their real self long enough to get girls"
True.
Alliekit wrote:
Sounds like a complete turn off to me
If the girls are than they are silly
But they are still girls.
Even if women who are rude, selfish, greedy, unattractive and otherwise not a good person end up with a rude, selfish, greedy, ugly slob of a man, they're still both getting more love than you are (just a figure of speech, not referring to you directly but to any men or women who are single in general but actually a decent person).
"If the smooth talking is used as a way to manipulate others into thinking that they are nice when they're really not then that is off putting too imo."
Off-putting to women who can successfully see through his act. Those that can't, on the other hand? Well...
"Maybe the guys aren't nearly as horrible as they're rumored to be. Maybe what you've heard is lies. Maybe the girl is just looking for some no-strings fun."
Still, there are some people who even from a first-hand and superficial look at their personality can appear to be quite a disrespectful and rude person.
I'm sure almost every little piece of sh*t teenage boys in high school had some sort of 'good' or 'redeeming' qualities about them, but observing 90% of their behavior as disrespectful to teachers, rude, loud, obnoxious, arrogant, aggressive, disrespectful to women, racist, homophobic, disrespectful to their own friends, and otherwise delinquent behavior, one has to assume they probably won't be much better outside of school grounds.
And who's to say teenagers are only bad and this isn't possible in adults as well? (clearly has an unlikable personality and getting to know them better will prove this true?)
"You don't know thoug. Those guys and people are very good at putting on a show. It'll be weeks or months into a relationship before they drop the lie and be themselves.
My ex friend is good at that."
More like years.
A girl I'm attracted to right now dated a real a55høle and she couldn't see it. Even last year many months after dumping him she still decided to spend time with him out of politeness and severely regrets it. Tsk tsk tsk.
Id rather be single than go out with a guy like that.
Although thinking about it the main attraction to women is that confidence. Knowing they are confident enough to look after you and in themselves as a person is a big thing
Although plenty if good gentlemen out there also have good confidence.
My mum always said there is nothing more sexy then a man with confidence. My brother is a big guy and not particularly good looking but his confidence means he is very popular with the ladies
24 May 2016, 5:21 am
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24 May 2016, 1:42 pm
Wow, I just saw a side of this guy I never thought I'd see. He was in one of the offices at the clubhouse, crying and saying that he was lonely and he needed companionship. I guess he realized that being a swinger isn't what he wants after all. He just wants to be loved. 
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