Girl gave her number without me asking for it

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20 Jun 2016, 10:18 am

i went to the pub with a few guys i went to school with and one of my friends brought some of his work colleagues there was a girl we were talking to most of the night. got most of our names mixed up lol. she gave her number to me and another guy without us asking. does this mean anything? i texted her mainly about how her weekend was



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20 Jun 2016, 11:04 am

Does she work there? She may have been fishing for a tip.

Does she not work there? She might have thought you were kind of cute. Or she was being nice. It doesn't mean you have a green light to her heart as is. Play it by ear, see if she bites.



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20 Jun 2016, 11:13 am

Nope she doesnt work there she was a friend of a friend



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20 Jun 2016, 3:51 pm

Se must have liked you :D

Do you like her? Do you think you would like to see her again?



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21 Jun 2016, 7:09 pm

@ OP: People giving their contact information to other people without consent from the person receiving the contact information is actually more common than you might think in regards to romance. From a personal perspective, a friend of my NT girlfriend gave me not only her phone number, but also the address of her place of work when I was at my GF's house a few weeks ago for a housewarming party. {Like my NT girlfriend, she works as a waitress at an upscale restaurant close to my school, but that is beside the point.}

If you meet her again, just be polite whenever you make conversation with her.


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21 Jun 2016, 7:32 pm

If she gave her number to you and also another guy I wouldn't bother pursuing anything romantic. Chances are it was just as mates, but if not why would you chase someone who gives her number out to multiple guys?



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22 Jun 2016, 3:58 am

The other guy is probably texting her by now while you are wasting your time by asking us here.



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22 Jun 2016, 4:31 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
The other guy is probably texting her by now while you are wasting your time by asking us here.

Yep. Humble brag fail!

She liked you both, and this is a case of seeing who likes her back. Your pal is probably exchanging messages with her already.

Go forth and reclaim your title as bone daddy! Text her! ..or something.


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22 Jun 2016, 6:31 am

Texted her on monday had a convo about our weekends then i asked her out for a drink she was up for it the flaked saying she rembered she had to do something on saturday. Also her whatsapp dp has changed with a guy in it :(



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22 Jun 2016, 6:36 am

accountinglad wrote:
Texted her on monday had a convo about our weekends then i asked her out for a drink she was up for it the flaked saying she rembered she had to do something on saturday. Also her whatsapp dp has changed with a guy in it :(

Oh no. :skull:

How much time was there between when she gave you the number and you made this thread?


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22 Jun 2016, 6:47 am

Got her number friday night texted her monday morning



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22 Jun 2016, 6:50 am

accountinglad wrote:
Got her number friday night texted her monday morning

It doesn't sound like a lot of time but if other guys got given the number a lot can happen in 2 days.


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22 Jun 2016, 7:26 am

accountinglad wrote:
Texted her on monday had a convo about our weekends then i asked her out for a drink she was up for it the flaked saying she rembered she had to do something on saturday. Also her whatsapp dp has changed with a guy in it :(

This is why you don't get involved with these kinds of girls :(



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22 Jun 2016, 8:23 am

TheSpectrum wrote:
accountinglad wrote:
Got her number friday night texted her monday morning

It doesn't sound like a lot of time but if other guys got given the number a lot can happen in 2 days.


It can happen in 2 hours.



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22 Jun 2016, 1:57 pm

The last girl that gave me her number was new staff of a friend's (he needs due to disability), we we were all on holiday together.

I'm not exactly sure why she gave me her number at this early stage, but I don't think it was romantic. I just think she was quite friendly.

It was as I was just leaving so I forgot to save it.