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I realized that I cannot be attracted to too ugly guys.

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ShesGone
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14 Jul 2016, 4:05 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
OP, is your profile pic actually a picture of you? You must have loads of women chasing you.
Those poor women :lol:


^ No.. :lol: I wish. :mrgreen:


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The Grand Inquisitor
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17 Jul 2016, 11:18 am

There's absolutely no reason to feel guilty about not being attracted to someone. Physical appearance is just one of the elements we consider when sifting through potential matches and picking out a mate. Obviously it's not the only thing to take into account, but it's certainly not something that most people can/should disregard.

I see it like this

Attraction + Amity = Potential Partner
Attraction + No Amity = Potential Fling
No Attraction + Amity = Potential Friend
No Attraction + No Amity= Someone you don't go out of your way to hang around



Blunzengroestl
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18 Jul 2016, 8:20 am

I think that it is fine to have preferences of your own. I think that what people find attractive can be subjective. For me, what I find unattractive, is an unhealthy appearance. Generally the person's personality will be important too.