Phone Numbers and Creepers

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Honestly if a girl gave him her number, he should consider himself to be lucky af. I mean let's be honest here, it's usually the guys who ask for the girls number, especially if it's a complete stranger.

I have the same reaction when someone comes over and starts hitting on me out of the blue. (I'm female. It probably happens more often than to males.) For me it feels like someone just invaded my personal everything. I wouldn't call it feeling violated, but it's similar.

If he was in his own world and isn't used to strangers noticing him, let alone entering it without invitation, it does seem creepy. He felt "closed to the public" and someone just barged right in. It's probably a mixture or annoyed at the intrusion, confused about the reason for it, and weirded out by the intimacy of the exchange. He was also probably on high alert about how much further this stranger was going to take it, and that in itself means the other person is "creepy" to him.

I don't feel a "space invasion" when a girl flirts with me.

I'd call her.
Find out a bit about her over the phone.
Arrange a date, there doesn't need to be any pressure.
The first date is to establish if there is any connection/common ground.

If you're suspicious, there is no need to take it further or give her any information more than you are comfortable with.