Lonehiker wrote:
Ok so she contacted me on skype and we ended up talking for about an hour. She basically said that she can't handle things in life at the moment and feels bad about it, that she s not cut out for it all. I asked her about us and she is not sure, doesn't know how she feels.
So right now I'm not really sure what to think. I'm just going to give her plenty of space and see what happens. At least she didn't flat out breakup with me.
I can be like this with my fiancee and it is almost always something unrelater to our relationship that bothers me.
Just remind her that you are there to support her and that your relationship isnt another problem that needs fixing.
Maybe offer to just listen to everything she is worried about to let her just vent.
She sounds like she feels like she can't tell people her problems in case it causes trouble for them. If thats the case just remind her that you want to know all her troubles to lessen the burden
Thanks, this sounds good.
When I asked if it was our relationship that is related to whats troubling her she said 'partly'. I really do want to listen and show her that I care. However I'm waiting for her to contact me again, if not I will in a week or two.