Website against Asperger's Syndrome: HeartlessAspergers.com

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Kiwifarms targets people for kicks, and their website is what it is, and they go after specific targets for the "fun" of it. It's best not to post there at all IMO. They rarely target members here, but when they do, they can be very cruel and immature. Best avoided altogether, I think. Malice is a destructive force, on the net and in life. Who needs it?

The crucial difference is that Kiwifarm members are trying to be (and think they are being) funny, it's not the same hatefully malicious stuff that Heartless members post continously, nor does Kiwifarms only target Aspergers - they are more "equal opportunity offenders" with a satirical bent.

I don't think the members there realise that their targeting of the most vulnerable people - people who are clearly very confused and troubled - is as cruel and destructive as it is. They seem to think it is "just for fun" and believe that.

They aren't as consistently destructive as sites dedicated to spreading hatred of AS people (they are more diverse in their targets). Most of them will probably mature a bit in time. I don't think the same can be said of the Heartless Aspergers haters, who are more toxic in their intent and tactics.

To be honest, at first I thought this lady must have just had a very bad experience, possibly compounded by having something such as BPD (no offense to those with BPD) because most people would not put such effort into making such a website over a bad 8 month relationship. Regardless of whether or not she was subjected to emotional abuse, her response is just not normal behavior.

However I was not aware of the other website at the time and now I'm inclined to think that she is actually just trying to set up a product platform and sell books.

Let's be honest. If she didn't intend to profit then she would not have to write the books because she could post anything she has to say on one or both of her two websites for free.

I think this is an exploitation of women in bad relationships or who are with spouses they are unhappy with, at the expense of those on the spectrum.

There's a long line of people like this who prey on those in compromised situations. "Psychics", self help gurus, diet gurus, PUAs, get rich quick people, homeopaths, people with no medical background what so ever, non-doctors who have a secret cure that you have to buy a book to learn about, some lawyers..or a lot of them, and probably even some therapists.

And yet often you dont see a hate site started by an aspie. Its gotta be rare. Weve been labeled the nice guys of the universe, the ( if no one minds "push overs", and "living door mar walk overs"). Every phd, dr, agrees common traits are super nice, uber accepting, over forgiving, and yest detached emotionally. So empathy is not our strong suit due to a brain issue. So what we live in grays rather than black n white.

It peeves me that weve been lumped together in one pile. So one aspie was that way doesnt mean we are all .


And i just contradicted and counter slapped myself at the same time.

Lol some logical person i am.

probably a russian troll!

https://theneurotypical.com/history_of_cassandra.html

hmmmm

by the way: the hate sites against people with asperger:

http://heartlessaspergers.com/

https://theneurotypical.com/

http://www.aspergerpartner.com/

and one hate book:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Broken-relatio ... +aspergers

https://whois.icann.org/en/lookup?name= ... artner.com

https://whois.icann.org/en/lookup?name= ... ypical.com

https://whois.icann.org/en/lookup?name= ... ergers.com

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I bet its a troll site honestly

I've heard of this site before, but I won't be going to debate on it because the person or persons who created it will not listen to anyone but themselves and those who agree with their opinions.

seeing the reports of NT partners clearly, I see clearly that both are unhappy in their relationships, both aspie by lack of understanding, as NT by ignorance and by faith that aspies are heartless monsters.

That is why you shouldn't say you are Asperger, because of wrong stupid prejudices.

Similar prejudices happen regarding skin colour and regarding other minorities.

They read what we post here for sure.

My message to them for today (it's Sunday here!)
“Don't judge too harshly, for if your weaknesses were to be placed under your footsteps, most likely you would stumble and fall as well"

Or as my old granny used to say to habitual accusers: "you wouldn't try so hard to shame others if your own lies and misdoings was printed on your forehead". Her other most common response was "stop targeting that person. they are far more sinned against than sinning, and you are not innocent in that".

She has been dead for over 50 years, but I still value her guidance and wisdom about people who target others in hateful ways.

^^... they read and post

I just went through it too and as a long ago diagnosed 'Aspie' a term her and the rest of the site's bigots like to use I felt my blood honestly boil. Who is she to justify such hate and use random examples as if all persons with Asperger's are the same and nothing but borderline sociopaths? And she says we lack empathy? No Ma'am you are a hater and take the cake. She has no business judging Adults Autism. She wants to feel sorry for herself and partners and former partners for having to deal with people with Asperger's? I feel discriminated and judged by her and her allies blatant bias hypocrisy.

My dear old granny used to have a saying: "what do you expect from a pig but a grunt". While I feel that this is unfair to actual pigs - which seem to me quite nice, though very exploited, animals - it seems apt for that particular site and its haters. She was a wise old lady. Don't let it bother you, haters are not worth your energy, only their own kind takes them seriously at the end of the day. There will always be ignorant haters out there, if they weren't hating on us they would be hating on some other minority group, because the only thing haters are good at is hate. Laugh at them instead, whenever possible. No point in trying to reason with people like that. They get off on a false sense of power and that's why they do it. They don't understand it makes them seem despicable to others.