I really think that neither my AS nor my asexuality has anything to do with it, though I'm just not comfortable with the idea of trying to make small talk, let alone flirting which is incomprehensible to me... but I know when I feel that spark, and I've met very, very few women who make me feel that way.
I'm usually able to feel the spark right away, or never---it depends on the woman, and if she doesn't show any traits or behaviors which I find off-putting. If I don't feel the spark, then to me it feels like I'd be wasting my time if I made an effort to socialize with her. This has given some people the idea that I dislike women in general, which is totally untrue.
It must feel great to be one of those people who can feel a spark with just anyone...
17 Jan 2017, 10:52 pm
