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rdos
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20 Mar 2017, 1:24 pm

llama711 wrote:
AngelRho wrote:
rdos wrote:


My tendency in pursuing a crush was to be too clingy and forward, which scared girls away. Or if I got dumped I'd fight battles I couldn't win. I'm lucky I didn't end up in jail. I disciplined myself to be more chill, let them come to me, narrow it down to who was interested, and test the waters for mutual chemistry. That approach NEVER failed.


THIS!! ! I can relate so much and am working on the chill part, but I am a lot better.


What is applicable to guys is applicable for girls too. At least to some degree. Primary rule: Never get too emotionally involved in somebody until you know there is a mutual interest.