Some male users here claim they may unintentionally give creep/weirdo vibes hence their dating troubles, it seems to be a common aspie problem.
But by observation of the way females interact with me in real life, I am pretty convinced that I don't have this issue:
- Female coworkers seem to be comfortable around me, like coming to my table for a chit chat or for asking some work related stuff or help; even if no one is around.
- Newcomer female coworkers always seem to befriend me first, a senior lady also noticed this and often jokingly commented on it, she always teased me about it.
- Female acquaintances often asked me to escort them in dark alleys, at night times, even if I don't know them so well.
- Facebook friend requests to female new acquaintance/buddies are rarely rejected, .....well at least that means I didn't give a creep first impression (but after that, they're just ghosts who fill my feed, they never initiate contact no matter how many times I did initiate contact with them).
So from these facts, I am pretty confident I don't have the creep vibe problem, so my dating problems seem to be more related to social awkwardness, or I have a missing fundamental ability (as Sabreclaw calls it, the missing x-factor) to be liked more than a mere acquaintance or friend, by women I meet in real life at least, so it's something that cannot be fixed, could it be?