K_Kelly wrote:
Yeah, but I have a personal independence problem. Let's leave it at that.
There's an NT lady I know who was born a handicapped cripple with cerebral palsy (CP) who uses a wheelchair. She's handicapped for life and will always have certain physical challenges, but was taught how to live independently. She ended up going to college in another state, getting a job there, and moving away from her family so she could continue living on her own. Yes, she had a couple of things that helped her: A supportive family who loved her ... and a positive, "can-do" spirit.
Not knowing your situation ... it's possible for people to learn, grow, and improve.