If you have ALOT of problems with going to family parties, cuz of lack of talking, sensitive to lights, getting exhausted & other things too. Will you still go to your family parties? If things were different, I would go, but it's really my choice, I have to do what is best for me. I'm tired of keep saying no to them, if I tell them why, they won't believe me. Why can I do lunch with one of them? Or email them or texting.