Is the purpose of life work or recreation?

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It's a false dilemma. You need a little bit of both.

When working, ask yourself "who am I doing this for?"

There is a fault in the Protestant work ethic, it can really get people to act irrationally. Something similar appears in some Asian cultures.

You need to find out what works for you, not for everyone else. There is no general answer. Ask a tribesman in the Amazon jungle this question, and he'll probably look at you like you have two heads.

I don't see a future for me in a job, so all i've got is playing games, so there isn't much else to life really

Life is short and it has no real purpose, so you may as well try to enjoy it. If that means ditching work to have fun, go for it. If that means working hard, go for that instead. You could have a fatal brain anyeurism at any moment, so why waste time doing things you hate?

Life is for recreation. Who would think that life is for work...some corporate whipcracker? Someone trying to guilt trip you? A lot of people think I'm a slacker because I refuse to be someone's doormat...like I need more drama and crap in life. I agree with some of the other posts; life is to be enjoyed, not endured.

You've probably seen this lady in the news. She came to America and worked her ass off to become the vice president of Goldman Sachs.

I know I'm probably not focusing on the intended point. I know I'm probably supposed to be inspired and stuff.

But when I see stuff like this I think, "Why can't I have her drive?"

She probably does more work in a day then I do in a weak. Why am I so weak will compared to people like her?

Ban-Dodger had a good point about keeping things in context.
For me that means understanding a few different things:

We live at a certain point in time.
Most of our customs have evolved only over the last few hundred years. They will change in the next few hundred years.
Humans are adaptable and versatile.

Find your own truth and try to live by that. Autistic people have an advantage in that since we usually have rich inner lives and aren't as easily swayed by social trends. Listen to your heart and focus on what actually matters to you. I've found that social media and the constant need for stimulation is too stressful and I'm learning to manage when I'm mindlessly hunting for a hit of 'new' to get me through the next few minutes.

The phrase work/life balance is used a lot but not observed very often. I choose to work to support the life that I want. By keeping that in balance I don't stress myself out about things that don't really matter to me.

A bit of both!

But I love my job and made my hobby my job....

How?

I don't agree it's about either necessarily. Just having fun, watching TV, and relaxing doesn't tend to make people happy long-term the way things like friendships, family, or working on fulfilling projects does. Money can't be taken with you when you die, it's not worth as much as some people think. Ideally a job would be fulfilling and still fund recreation.

I've been working 12 hour days + weekends. It's just for a few weeks. Maybe this will help me find my purpose in life. Hopefully it will mean my family stops calling me lazy!

The purpose of life is to leave the world a better place than when you entered it, however you can. Even if you can only do that in your small part of it. That's what I believe anyway. Whether you accomplish that by work/recreation or some combination of the two, is partly up to you and partly up to the world. The important thing is that you never give up.