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LonelyJar
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05 May 2017, 8:22 pm

I've been a nervous wreck for several years. I think this is because of several factors, from poor nutrition to poor exercise to being bullied by people who are close to me, like my parents. I've received my fair share of harassment from both of them, but I've also seen them give me dirty looks several times, like they stared right into my soul and screamed "f**k YOU!!" at me. Sometimes, when I'd looked in the mirror, I'd give myself the evil eye because I've come to really hate my own guts. I don't know whether I got the evil eye from my parents more often than from my own reflection, so I don't know who to blame more! Does anyone have any solutions to my problem?



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06 May 2017, 6:44 am

Sucks that your parents bully you. What kind of things do they do if I may ask?



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06 May 2017, 8:22 am

get yourself one
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06 May 2017, 10:32 am

Or get a rock with a hole in it,it has to be natural,not drilled out by man.You look thru the hole at the person giving you the stink eye and it throws the evil back at them.Anyway,that's the folklore here.Many people collect them and hang them up to repel evil.If it dosent work then you can always throw the rocks at them.lol


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06 May 2017, 10:50 am

In what way do your parents bully you? I hope you haven't had something bad happen through them....like severe physical abuse or worse.

Why would they give you the "evil eye?" I'm thinking that you're having a bad day, and are having distorted impressions or memories.



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06 May 2017, 11:53 pm

Don't believe the things your parents say or think about you. Don't hate yourself.


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07 May 2017, 11:08 pm

Sell the evil eye on eBay.

And don't blame yourself. I know, easier said...


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LonelyJar
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09 May 2017, 6:20 am

Yo El wrote:
Sucks that your parents bully you. What kind of things do they do if I may ask?

For the most part, it's just overreacting in the form of verbal harassment.

kraftiekortie wrote:
In what way do your parents bully you? I hope you haven't had something bad happen through them....like severe physical abuse or worse.

Why would they give you the "evil eye?" I'm thinking that you're having a bad day, and are having distorted impressions or memories.

I can assure you that this wasn't some one-time thing; it's part of a pattern of my parents' behavior. I'm not the only one in my family with issues.
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09 May 2017, 6:25 am

I wish you could move out of your parents' place.

I had sort of a similar relationship with my mother--until I moved out.

Some parents just hate having their adult children around. It's their problem, really.

Are you certified as having autism? Maybe you could live in a group home, or in transitional housing.