Why are adult women not as nice?

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Some people practice polygamy, admittedly.

The question is not directed at me personally --

Ideally, all empty virtue-signaling. Then, snowballs into a competition, without a unitary executive.

Private school girls were asking soap-opera like questions, about prenuptials and intrigues, by grammar school. Use a stereotype. It won't hurt.

Learn from the mistakes of others.

Unlike a lot of aspies, I actually had friends as a kid. We didn't do anything "proto-sexual". The closest we (all boys) came to it was urinating on an anthill together. What I did completely miss out on was the awkward but incredibly fun teenage proto-sexuality. Stuff like slow-dancing, "spin the bottle", holding hands in a clumsy way, etc. I was able to catch up on college hook-ups by paying escorts, but I resigned myself to never catching up on the teenage stuff. Until last year, after I lost over 10% of my hair and 2 teeth. I found it through an unlikely source: Tinder. The app that was developed as a hook-up service for alpha males and women, not beta males. Somehow, I ended up meeting a girl there, who later became a very good friend. Me and her do a lot of that teenage stuff: slow-dance, hold hands, cuddle, etc. Nothing more. A part of me feels guilty for playing catch-up through her. But another part of me is very happy to have met her.

I had my first kiss at age 20, at a drunken frat party in a bar in another town. I never learned her name and was too drunk to know she looked like. But the electrifying sexuality of my first kiss (with tongue) and the feeling of her body under my hands (through clothes) hit my brain like a high-volage power line. My first sexual intercourse, however, was with an escort. It lacked that "innocent discovery" feeling, which I was very much looking for, but I was able to partially replicate that later, through escorts that allowed low-level fetishes. Heck, I even had an "innocent discovery" experience last year, when I went to an escort convention in one of the worst neighborhoods in my city. I kissed four escorts, and danced with many of them. (Well, maybe not that innocent. ) I'm pretty sure only the alpha-est men can top that! For free, at least.

Like I talked about in the above paragraph, my friend gives me the feeling like you described. I know she's not an aspie; she's too bubbly and outgoing to be one, it seems. But that's precisely what makes her so fun to be around.

Do you mean that I dislike it just because I don't get any of these hook-ups, and when I will get I will start liking it?

I don't really get this "I don't want to marry my first girlfriend" attitude. IF a great and compatible girl comes along and accepts to be your gf, would you just dump her after a while saying that "I wanna try some other girls before I settle down?".

I mean your whole view on hookups and marriage may change.

Also some things becomr less feasible the older you become.

I doubt it will change. Anyway, what did I say about marriage?

What things?

I don't remember the exact posts; but the overall impression I have of you is that you value long terms and marriage.

This is not a bad thing; I wish you luck to find whatever you are seeking for very soon.

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Feminism is not anti-men in and of itself. Although some self proclaimed feminists may also have radical views regarding men, using generalized language like this is likely why you have experienced "intolerance" from adult women.

Go away Katie. We all know about what generalisations are. H'away!

I miss katie, and her "the women of the world don't want you guys" posts.

I don't value marriage that much, because a lot of times if it ends the guy can face very bad consequences. I'd advise against it, if in a country the law is not very egalitarian.

Thanks, I wish you happiness too.

"memes" are not a form of argument.




NO

STOP

A picture is worth a thousand words. I am not sure how I can improve upon it.


I get that it's vulgar, to compare women with children and animals...

But, women, children, and animals, tend to follow me, when I appear to be preoccupied with something, or doing something interesting.

I remember seeing black-and-white movies with a sing-a-long (holdovers, from before my time.) A bouncing ball would hover over each word, as you were supposed to sing it. They might not know the words of the song. You don't know whether you like, it or not, are just following the movement, maybe, with people smiling at you and nodding their heads, in approval.

I am not a pickpocket, but remember a story of two people, working in tandem. One just looks at the sky. There is nothing there. He points, but there is nothing. Then entire crowd starts to gather around him, and pays no concern for themselves.

With NT people, it is always the same way. Every physical motion, process, undeveloped plot, work in progress, kinetic action, Keynesian shovel, Bastiat's window, is engaging. How do you know whether I am doing something good?

Wikipedia calls it liminality. Most people are indecisive and suggestible, do not actually have any wants (although we are ideally Enlightened and humanitarian.)

I think, they are more interested in the fact that something is happening, than what is happening. It's like the hypnotic induction, when you follow a watch, swinging. The point that you want to communicate is probably only a few syllables, hidden in the whole long spiel. It's about 99% engagement, imo. She just wants someone to distract her.

I didn't find young girls so nice either. They hit and bully me as well.

That's very gross.