Marknis wrote:
Ecomatt91 wrote:
Your obsession is still there if you mention the word 'girlfriend' again.
I am dealing same crap about wanting a girlfriend. Now I am stopping thinking about it. I have friends to worry about. Try do the friends thing first and see how it go. Have yourself productive and motivational. Do the things you love and show people you can do this. Show autism is not a barrier.
I don't have very many friends, though, and trying to make new ones when you don't fit in culturally feels like you are banging your head against a wall.
I have few/no friends either.
These people need to stop telling us how to live our lives.
There's a big differene between 'single with friends' vs 'Single with NO friends'.
As someone who's been both I know I'd be happy being single without a girlfriend if I had dgood caring friends in my life,but I don't even have that.
Also, I'm trying to both make new friends and get a girlfriend.
I would be happy with one or the other (or both) but what I do know is I'm unhappy without either.
Most of the people here who are happy being single have friends.
99% of people I've ever met who say they're happy being single have friends, a loving family and often have lots ofcasual sex and FWBs.