NTBard wrote:
New to this site, but I have done alot of research, I am NT and I've been dating an AS woman for awhile. Everything was great. I am 35 and she is 25 and that's really the only problem. Her mother (she still lives at home) says she doesn't want her dating an older man like me. Now, I've never met mom and I understand her reservations. But we both really like each other and I'm wondering what I should do? Stay?, forget it? Just be friends? or other?
i confess i'm feeling a little puzzled. a mother that you have yet to meet disapproves. going by the "we really like each other" bit, your GF obviously doesn't have an issue with the age gap.
i too can understand the mother's reservations, but, she's just doing her job like any parent would, and does.
so then, why is this even a question/problem? does the age gap bother you and so her mother's disapproval has struck a nerve? otherwise, i'm genuinely not seeing it.
how can a bunch of strangers advise on what you should do? you both really like each other *shrug* can't see the problem.
why not focus on how you feel for each other as opposed to what people think? suspect if you both go the serious route, her mother would come around anyways. in time.