Once more being told to not think about the girlfriend issue

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I've got a few of Eleanor Roosevelt quotes for you.










Honestly it used to bother me that people would think I was weird because of My lack of relationships, but I strangely don't care what they think anymore because they don't think about it. No one cares.

I need to just make the best of my life on my own. I don't think the little emptiness or sadness will die, I don't think I'll Sri wondering why I'm not deemed too enough by any man, but I can't let that consume me. I've got other things in life to be getting on with.

I'm 29 and also don't know how to play the dating game really... or maybe I do, I don't know. I've realized a lot of s**t about "the game" since even last year, including that you must be natural but be tactful.

I missed out on the psychosocial moratorium so I never really got to experiment with different "masks". I feel like because I missed out that I will never learn how to navigate the dating world.

I really envy people who can turn their focus on other things. The way Aspergers affects me is that my mind gets stuck in loops on certain thoughts and refuses to quit.

Well I can't do it all the time. I do get low points, especially when I'm ill or at weekends if I have nothing planned and I'm alone. It can come crashing down on me and I can feel like there is no escape from the mire.

But I don't feel like people think I'm pathetic anymore. Maybe it's the kind of company I keep now, maybe I'm around more mature people these days.

I've never felt expected to be in a relationship. And that's quite freeing. "Accomplish what you can and set goals for yourself" is how I've been brought up. A relationship is just an added bonus that might happen, but not the focus of life. Although it's something I really want.

Me on the other hand I keep getting "ايمتى بدنا نفرح فيك" - a common cliché expression that literally means "When are we gonna celebrate your wedding?".

As if it's something I can make it anytime if I want it - just like that (not true).

I feel like that sometimes. It's like society thinks there's a girlfriend store somewhere around.