Why are women grossed out by the male body?

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05 Sep 2017, 12:14 am

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Women are naturally aesthetic.

A man sent me an unsolicited explicit picture. i was very grossed out. If I asked from a man I was attracted to, it would have been ok. I'm not into disembodied male genitalia. Many men don't understand context.

As far as a mans entire physique, imo it's harder for a man to look good than a woman. There are plenty of men who look good to me, but they spend many hours in the gym. A woman may never work out and still have an aesthetic body. Many overweight women have incredible shapes with big booties and well endowed chests. I've never seen a overweight man's body look aesthetic. A woman can be really thin and still have an aesthetic body. This also isn't true for many men.



A very obese woman is not aesthetically appealing, nor a very bony woman

Maybe not to you, but plenty of men love bbws with huge boobs, huge booties, and sometimes huge bellies. They love that roundness. They are plenty of men who'll break they're neck over a 90lb Asian chic. They are especially a lot of men who'll go nuts over a 90lb girl with big breasts.


That's because..... you are media-conditioned to visually like only one type of men. As I said while porn sites for men are by far more diverse when it comes to women's body types, by far more more than the erotic stoies aimed at women.

My East Asian partner is about 40 kg, but she is short so she doesn't look bony. She is even bit muscular.

Look, that may shock you: what makes East Asian women so appealing to many men - is not their looks, but their attitudes, their cultures are so "I respect my man no matter what" (even jn the fwb type of relaion!) - Dun dunn dunnn!
And also the fact that a lot of them tend to find me very handsome, which is flattering.

That's something a lot of Caucasian and White women can't seem to comprehend and falsely assume that the "Asian fever" is mainly looks-based.

It is not.

Its to culture, its biology.

Re diverse porn:
Think abt birds or most creatures. Males would take any female, but female birds often like that same male bird.

Women have to do less to be sexually attractive.

Men and womens bodies are different. Mens bodies just dont hold fat well.


I guess you are right, it makes sense evolutionary speaking.



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05 Sep 2017, 8:04 am

I have, only this past weekend, witnessed a large and diverse group of men and women appreciating all shapes and sizes of naked bodies. YMMV, I suppose, but just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.


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05 Sep 2017, 1:19 pm

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I have, only this past weekend, witnessed a large and diverse group of men and women appreciating all shapes and sizes of naked bodies. YMMV, I suppose, but just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.



I am wondering about the places where you spend your weekends.



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05 Sep 2017, 1:53 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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I have, only this past weekend, witnessed a large and diverse group of men and women appreciating all shapes and sizes of naked bodies. YMMV, I suppose, but just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.



I am wondering about the places where you spend your weekends.

Burning Man festival? In the Orgie Dome?



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05 Sep 2017, 2:06 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
nomoretears wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Women are naturally aesthetic.

A man sent me an unsolicited explicit picture. i was very grossed out. If I asked from a man I was attracted to, it would have been ok. I'm not into disembodied male genitalia. Many men don't understand context.

As far as a mans entire physique, imo it's harder for a man to look good than a woman. There are plenty of men who look good to me, but they spend many hours in the gym. A woman may never work out and still have an aesthetic body. Many overweight women have incredible shapes with big booties and well endowed chests. I've never seen a overweight man's body look aesthetic. A woman can be really thin and still have an aesthetic body. This also isn't true for many men.



A very obese woman is not aesthetically appealing, nor a very bony woman

Maybe not to you, but plenty of men love bbws with huge boobs, huge booties, and sometimes huge bellies. They love that roundness. They are plenty of men who'll break they're neck over a 90lb Asian chic. They are especially a lot of men who'll go nuts over a 90lb girl with big breasts.


That's because..... you are media-conditioned to visually like only one type of men. As I said while porn sites for men are by far more diverse when it comes to women's body types, by far more more than the erotic stoies aimed at women.

My East Asian partner is about 40 kg, but she is short so she doesn't look bony. She is even bit muscular.

Look, that may shock you: what makes East Asian women so appealing to many men - is not their looks, but their attitudes, their cultures are so "I respect my man no matter what" (even jn the fwb type of relaion!) - Dun dunn dunnn!
And also the fact that a lot of them tend to find me very handsome, which is flattering.

That's something a lot of Caucasian and White women can't seem to comprehend and falsely assume that the "Asian fever" is mainly looks-based.

It is not.

Its to culture, its biology.

Re diverse porn:
Think abt birds or most creatures. Males would take any female, but female birds often like that same male bird.

Women have to do less to be sexually attractive.

Men and womens bodies are different. Mens bodies just dont hold fat well.


I guess you are right, it makes sense evolutionary speaking.


Men can afford to be less particular about who they bang because they're not the ones who have to risk their lives giving birth.

Female chimps are known to be much more vigilant about avoiding incest because they're the ones who would get stuck carrying a screwed-up fetus in their bodies.


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05 Sep 2017, 4:17 pm

Men's bodies don't hold fat well? At least you dont get cellulite.



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05 Sep 2017, 5:14 pm

What's that?



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05 Sep 2017, 5:21 pm

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What's that?


I can't post images on mobile for some reason, but here is a link showing the difference between male and female skin.

Men have more collagen and therefore smoother fat appearance whereas women tend to go dimpled in fatty areas of the body especially the thighs. Gets worse as we get older.

https://goo.gl/images/7x3QcL



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05 Sep 2017, 5:45 pm

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Men's bodies don't hold fat well? At least you dont get cellulite.

My cottage cheese isn't what it was when I was severely overweight, but it's still noticeable. It's not just a girl thing.

What counts for attractive in men is different from women. I haven't changed my mind. But I will concede that ugly men do get more of a free pass than women. To be considered ugly, a woman has to be exceptionally unattractive. Like, 500lbs., warts/moles with little hairs, triple-chins, discolored/rotted/missing teeth, bunyons that have their own bunyons, skin puckered from cellulite so bad it looks like her insides are coming out, mysterious odors, etc. And it's really hard for a lot of people to be very forgiving of that. There's just no coming back from that, no integration or acceptance into society. A guy can be ugly as sin but everyone wants to hold his beer. He's the one you go to when you're toilet's backed up, your car won't start, or when you discover some mutant animal hiding in your shed. He's been married 4 times and has 5 kids with his current common-law wife.

And he's the most-loved man in your neighborhood.

Men can be ugly and get away with it, or sometimes their ugliness is actually partly what draws people to them. Women don't have it quite so easy in that regard.



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05 Sep 2017, 5:50 pm

At least we can wear makeup and pretty ourselves up a bit. Not many men can pull off makeup. I mean David Bowie yeah, but he was just enhancing his good looks.



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05 Sep 2017, 6:12 pm

hurtloam wrote:
sly279 wrote:
What's that?


I can't post images on mobile for some reason, but here is a link showing the difference between male and female skin.

Men have more collagen and therefore smoother fat appearance whereas women tend to go dimpled in fatty areas of the body especially the thighs. Gets worse as we get older.

https://goo.gl/images/7x3QcL

This is what you want:

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On an iPhone, visit the original website, tap/hold on the image, and hit copy. Then "insert image" on WP and paste the link. I'm sure it's similar on other devices.



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05 Sep 2017, 7:09 pm

"Copy image address" on droid, and the address will probably end in .jpg


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05 Sep 2017, 9:25 pm

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At least we can wear makeup and pretty ourselves up a bit. Not many men can pull off makeup. I mean David Bowie yeah, but he was just enhancing his good looks.


The number one beauty tip I would give to men is, wear sunscreen. A lot of men have horribly damaged skin because they spend a lot of time int he sun and don't wear sunscreen.

The second beauty tip I would give is, shave back and shoulder hair if they have it.



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06 Sep 2017, 3:53 pm

Women like sex just as much as men do, they're turned on by hot guys. It's just that women are more discreet about their desires. What happens when a woman goes around saying how horny she is? She gets shamed by other women, she gets hit on by men she's not attracted to. So she has to be discreet for her own safety.



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06 Sep 2017, 7:47 pm

Maybe this applies more specifically to conservative women, but I can assure you from experience with older Texas church ladies it does not apply universally to conservative women. They simply have a pretty limited range of opportunities and ways to express their appreciation for the male body, but I've personally heard them commenting.

I just remembered that I had a coworker who said directly to me that she liked checking out guys dicks through their pants. Chef's pants show rather a lot, for loose pants, but I'm sure she had opportunities when she got things out of the deli case for customers. That was only the most extreme case of what I saw working in kitchens. That should cure anyone of the illusion that women always (or even generally) get grossed out by the male body. Go work in a kitchen.


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07 Sep 2017, 1:27 am

That lady at 0:26 was like "holy moly"