hurtloam wrote:
The dude in the video is correlating romance with a mating dance.
He's not taking into consideration the fact that people enjoy romance and do it for fun. Yes most people do that.
Aspies can find it a bit false and like a game you play to get a mate. But I'll give you an example. A friend of mine, who had married young and divorced, met the love of her life at 40. It's silly to say that they have no romance because they are too old. They care enjoying their romance. They aren't doing it because they want kids.
I know someone else who met her first husband at 60. Are you saying they have no romance?
They never had a earlier relationship. People who have constant relationships throughout life grow tired of it same as people in a relationship slowly have sex less and less and it becomes less of s thrill and more of s chore. So yeah two people in their 60s who never had a relationship could still be romantic. That guy who's on relationship 20 probably not so much.
I dont know how they did it though I'm less romantic and hopeful then I was 2 years ago.
I use to like romance and want to be romantic but I've come to see it as a lie.
People in relationships generally be less and less romantic it's hard to keep topping your last romantic thing. Hard to keep coming up with new poetry and such
That's the problem see at 30 I want want people in their 16-24 wanted and had. While lady's in there 30/40s already had their fill of thatnstuff and want more serious stuff.