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09 Sep 2017, 3:05 am

I was diagnosed with "High Functioning Autism" in April.

I had a bit of misfortune last weekend when I was run out of my home and land by Wildfire in Montana.

That was Saturday, on Sunday morning, my wife divorced me and took the kids. I don't know where they are.

I have nothing left, except the album I had recently begun to compose.

https://anachron.bandcamp.com/track/organism-a

It is my intention to finish it, instead of dwelling on the things that have just happened.

Thank you for your time.

-Nicholas



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09 Sep 2017, 8:09 am

The power of music is not to be underestimated. I have nothing but respect towards you for pushing forward with a project like this, even in a situation as dire as yours.

Stay strong.


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09 Sep 2017, 11:50 am

I enjoy writing songs too. I believe that music is truly a gift from God.



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09 Sep 2017, 11:58 am

Anachron wrote:
I was diagnosed with "High Functioning Autism" in April.

I had a bit of misfortune last weekend when I was run out of my home and land by Wildfire in Montana.

That was Saturday, on Sunday morning, my wife divorced me and took the kids. I don't know where they are.

I have nothing left, except the album I had recently begun to compose.

https://anachron.bandcamp.com/track/organism-a

It is my intention to finish it, instead of dwelling on the things that have just happened.

Thank you for your time.

-Nicholas


Wow that's pretty sh*tty, lose your house and your family all in one weekend....sheesh. I certainly do hope your music can help you.

Though pretty sure unless courts ruled you as being neglectful or abusive you have rights in regards to your children, also well its not an official divorce unless she had a document to confirm it also if you don't agree to her having custody then the courts can decide. I mean yeah I don't really know the situation leading up to it, but I know for a divorce there is a legal process to go through...one parent can't just run off with the kids and claim divorce without going through the legal process.


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10 Sep 2017, 3:03 pm

She suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder complete with the wrist-slitting habit. I would have no problem getting my kids through court. I have to find them first. How long do I wait until it is considered kidnapping?



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10 Sep 2017, 3:04 pm

The arts can save us in our time of trouble often more than other things might.


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10 Sep 2017, 10:29 pm

Anachron wrote:
She suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder complete with the wrist-slitting habit. I would have no problem getting my kids through court. I have to find them first. How long do I wait until it is considered kidnapping?


Unfortunately, I believe since there is no court order that the kids are under your custody it isn't considered kidnapping since she is the mother. But if you believe the kids are better off with you, you should definitely file for custody. You'll just need to prove her to be an unfit mother. Also, I'm sorry that you're going through all of that. It must be tough! Just be strong and keep working on your music. Btw I listened to the track you posted and I love it! Keep it up :)



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20 Sep 2017, 10:10 am

Two down, five to go.

https://anachron.bandcamp.com/track/organism-b

I intend to write one for all seven notes on a piano.

I'm no Mozart, but it does bring joy to my days.



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23 Sep 2017, 1:16 am

Here ya go, Boss!
Organism C
Check my work, tell me what you think. I really want to keep this job.
https://anachron.bandcamp.com/track/organism-c



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23 Sep 2017, 6:49 pm

Listening to the tracks so far - they're beautiful.

Don't know if this would help, a full album by Mikarma (Kid Drama alias) from when his wife divorced him and he spent a month obliterated on Valium - hardly even remembered making the album.

Mikarma story at the bottom of this article:
https://ukf.com/words/need-talk-damon-k ... 0%A8/16464


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29 Sep 2017, 4:50 pm

Here you are, Boss.
This week, I got some food and fixed the flat tire.
Still need some oil and gas if I want to go anywhere.
I would like to continue working for you, if you like my work.
Have a great week.
Thank you.
https://anachron.bandcamp.com/track/organism-d



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